do**** Posted October 12 Posted October 12 I’d like to think it’s becoming way more accepted. And I think if both partners are interested in it, as a sub who loves aspects of *** and *** fusing the two together within the kink dynamic is a really huge turn on. I also think, the poly conversation between two partners is a great way to assess how receptive the other is to your needs, boundaries and vice versa.
Oh**** Posted October 15 Posted October 15 💯 we had a great relationship for years. Still great friends. That's our main goal.
Ti**** Posted October 15 Posted October 15 My experience is someone always gets their heart broken badly. It's usually my heart, so poly is not for me.
Ed**** Posted October 16 Posted October 16 In a poly, you don't give your "partner" as much love and affection as a monogamous relationship, so no, its dumb and a waste of time. If you don't like someone, don't date them
me**** Posted October 16 Posted October 16 I'd be surprised if even one girl wanted me now dudes got group dates I'm cooked
jo**** Posted October 18 Posted October 18 My (limited) experience has been being a partner of someone who has multiple partners, but then when wanting to spend more quality time with them on par with their other partner, it soured the relationship. Personally I'd like to experience being in a mutually 3(or more) way relationship, sharing each other on par with like having a three income household (which; "in this economy" 😅) is a very viable solution if you want to buy a house in more expensive places to live like NYC or L.A..... or "mAyBe I nEeD tO bE lEsS eMotIoNaLlY aTtAcHeD" as one of my exes put it 🤷. Open to constructive criticism.
Deleted Member Posted October 22 Posted October 22 It was actually my partner that suggested coming back on here as she felt like she had caged me. We talked about it and to be fair I said if you look at another person the way you do to me while doing things that would break my hart knowing that he or she has that plus getting ready for the night activities I sort of think if I can’t or don’t have time for her then why should I do it for someone else. But it’s pure love that made her prepose this offer to me. I think as far as I would go would be texting or playing with apps. But since being back here my sex drive has gone up because I realise how much I love her both as my sub and as my best friend. Sounds very gay haha but you know what I mean
ur**** Posted October 23 Posted October 23 @legalAlienB I so get that my guy. My wife has proposed with us going poly on one hand I know even just trying is going to make her happy, and I can try to have another secondary meaningful relationship but on the other hand I'm pretty jealous and she is so precious to me that I am not aure I can go through with it. Glad things are going good for you I hope to have my answer here soon for myself. As far as the answer your question I do believe in poly and also monogamous relationships. One is better suited for others and that's OK there is nothing wrong with it. We are who we are.
Deleted Member Posted October 23 Posted October 23 Thank you glad I made some sense. I agree different people want it need different things, but I’m very lucky to be in a relationship and it sounds like you are to where both parties can talk.
aq**** Posted October 23 Posted October 23 So lately I've been sort of admitting to myself that I am most likely a poly person. I've felt this way for 20 years but have never actually called myself as such. How do you know when your ready to stop hiding from this about yourself, or how do you deal with people who look at you differently if they find out. I wish I didn't care, I wish I could just be me.. but I always felt like I had to hide.
Deleted Member Posted October 23 Posted October 23 Well I think I know how you feel the *** inside wants it but then I think about a lot of scenarios. We did agree on cyber fun or texting she is quite “happy” for me to do that and we even spoke of trying with a professional first . As for your question I’m not an expert etc but if you find a group or people that are more open minded that can only do well instead of being judged, I didn’t know and in some cases felt I couldn’t suggest something or felt embarrassed to ask in previous relationships but I have meet someone whom I can talk to and it has made a lot of things easier. I suppose just be yourself set rules out if you continue like me and my Mrs she would not want to know the other parties name just as a very quick example. Hope this helps if you feel comfortable and ready do it if not research and take your time
pr**** Posted October 31 Posted October 31 I think poly can be an amazing thing when done right, I've had two in the past same woman different men, I feel communication is the most important thing, and maybe build personal relationships with both partners individually and allow them to do the same and build from there. there's nothing worse than feeling left out because your not on the same level as your partners
Mi**** Posted November 4 Posted November 4 My wife and I wish we could meet one. I feel like we're in the wrong state.
Vi**** Posted November 4 Posted November 4 1 hour ago, Mickey764 said: My wife and I wish we could meet one. I feel like we're in the wrong state. I feel ya, were in the wrong country or so it seems, everyone is too uptight
E1**** Posted November 4 Posted November 4 My wife and I just agreed to try poly, our marriage was falling apart. We're having problems meeting anyone also.
KY**** Posted November 6 Posted November 6 @E15, not a good idea to open your marriage if it’s already falling apart!
E1**** Posted November 6 Posted November 6 @KYCouple4550, Financially leaving would devastate both of us. There is a long history of neglect, and I won't be left alone anymore.
Pa**** Posted November 9 Posted November 9 Polly is a great aspect of life, as long as everyone is mutually agreeable to the aspect and knows that the commitment between all parties is real
Su**** Posted November 18 Posted November 18 I'm actually here looking for a polyamorous relationship. I find that they are very difficult to arrange. I've only ever found couples that wanted to swap.
Vi**** Posted November 18 Posted November 18 8 hours ago, Sunkissed420 said: I'm actually here looking for a polyamorous relationship. I find that they are very difficult to arrange. I've only ever found couples that wanted to swap. I have the same issue, it's only men that want to jump the wife, they only want a one night stand and don't actually want a relationship with her, I have had zero luck with women even wanting to get that far as well. It's hard for sure
Ki**** Posted November 19 Posted November 19 My sub partner and I opened up as poly nearly a year ago, and have been in other forms of non-monogamy before that. I met someone earlier this year, and then she and my partner hit it off too. Somehow we ended up in a completely organic throuole (I.e. no unicorn hunting involved) and the three of us couldn’t be happier after nearly 6 months together
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