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Can you have too much foreplay in the bedroom?


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I know foreplay starts sooner but at what point does it move into teasing and maybe even frustration? Is that last part even possible?
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It can certainly be too much and become boring if you don’t move to action.
As for when that time is it only depends on the person and the moment. There is no template to use for it, but there are some steps you could use to gauge the levels.
0. Know your partner (yes, step 0)
1. Most importantly be in the moment and acknowledge every detail
2. Slowly move away from foreplay to the next step
3. See what happens, rinse and repeat.

With time you’ll get better understanding.
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Know what your partner enjoys. Full Stop.
Beyond that, everything else becomes moot.
If you’re asking because you’d like to apply some general go to knowledge / technique for any ol partner, say, hookups and such, see the first statement of this comment and or “0.” on the previous commenter’s list.

Now, on to ‘is frustration even possible’ YES absolutely! If you’re unsure about a thing, or have difficulty reading a moment, consult the subject/partner and simply ask them if they’re ready for whatever or what more of what you’re doing.
Communications beforehand can account for a large portion of misunderstandings, particularly when experience in general and or with that partner is absent.

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Don't be selfish, it's about the other person. Make sure you are fulfilling their needs and wants. So the first part of foreplay is communication. And like Alex says know your partner. If they touch your face or head you do the same. You have to do it in a loving caressing touch. Pull them close and start touching their back, lower back and butt. Squeeze their butt. Once the same exploring starts, then start whispering suggestive things. "I want to see and kiss all over you beautiful body." Hopefully that will happen. If you need to take a shower together and wash each other. Then work your way down ( between the legs) and make them happy first and they will return the favor. Make them happy first and you will get what you want. At least works for me. You have to be conscious of what they're doing while doing foreplay.
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Depends on my mood. I’m normally the dom so I get what I want or I will just leave and go about my day. When I was about 26 ish me and a play partner female she was trying to do forplay for about 15 minute and I wanted inside, yes her body was ready but she kept teasing me. I told her I need to go to the washroom but really I went to make some food as u was not having her endless forplay. Yes told I forplay forever and be into it other I want to just cum in her hard and then some after play/ after care. I get both kinda of sex are wanted and needed. I get woman don’t like you just wanting to bang and cum right away!
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Look up edging, orgasm denial, ruined orgasms. I personally enjoy teasing a woman to the point she is almost angry she hasn't cum and can only think about me being in her. Its good fun and always so hot. I feel like it makes that first orgasm much more intense for he. I know it does me when I've been edged
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