Deleted Member Posted November 5 Posted November 5 The first person any Dom must master is themselves. Then, treating any other person with respect is just a natural flow of your own mastery of self control. Being disrespectful is not a sign of dominance. Maintaining good boundaries and order is.
He**** Posted November 6 Posted November 6 If things were truly talked about in the beginning of how the dynamic of the relationship is going to be set. Then the treatment is already in you and the Sub agreement 🫱🏾🫲🏻
vs**** Posted November 8 Posted November 8 Comment and communication are the keys to a relationship where one person gives power to another. If both parties discuss and agree then there should plenty of respect and caring outside of the private sphere
Jo**** Posted Tuesday at 04:06 AM Posted Tuesday at 04:06 AM Yes you are right about the way a Dom should be but it also depends on what kink you are involved with at the time. Basically you should be what you said unless your sub asks for something different aka *** and things of that nature.
Wh**** Posted Tuesday at 10:07 PM Posted Tuesday at 10:07 PM It's an unfortunate reality that classically trained and practicing Doms are an endangered species, so the number of potential Subs that encounter a bad "dom" or have a negative experience is ever increasing. respectfully, I don't think the question is directly addressed in the other comments. I agree with OP. A Dom by definition is the Sub's caretaker regardless of the scene or dynamic. Their consensual submission hands you a proxy (like loco parentis) so keep that in mind folks. As for respect, that should be a given regardless, mutually and generously always.
em**** Posted 16 hours ago Posted 16 hours ago October 12, Deleted profile said: The scary thing is, when an inexperienced sub falls in with an inexperienced and untrained Dom,it's downright DANGEROUS!! And potentially damaging and scaring for the Sub on sooooo many levels.. I get so worried any time I hear a baby sub say they are looking for a daddy,or Dom, or whatever.. because I know that they don't know enough to ask the right questions, or to see the red flags as they start going up!! It's my first instinct to wanna take them up under me, but unfortunately that's not the way it works... As a baby sub this is my ***, what would be questions and red flags to consider?
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