PixieDust Posted February 4, 2020 Posted February 4, 2020 I have several health issues, which in a nutshell I hate with a passion however as I cannot change them, I have learnt to live with and just get on with things and do the best I can in any given situation. In most part people are very accepting and happy to accommodate the fact that I can’t do things like I once did. These people have had compassion and empathy for my situation and accordingly allowed me the time I need, which I have greatly appreciated. They understand that I can’t do things at the drop of a hat and that if I have sufficient warning and time to prepare, I am good to go as such. I have fought so hard to maintain my independence and my ability to enjoy things especially in this kink world I choose to live in. With that said, recently I was made to feel “worthless” because of the one thing I have no control over. The mental anguish this caused was unfathomable however as with everything I chose to dust myself off and get on with things like I usually do. It’s amazing in this kink society where acceptance and understanding is key, that certain people are so quick to judge and write people off as not worthy. I wonder how they would feel if they were in my position and as such the shoe was on the other foot, would they expect the same compassion and empathy that they so easily discarded with me. So, my lesson here is, next time you choose to write someone off, think how you would feel it was done to you. Treat others as you would expect to be treated, with kindness and compassion. Don’t limit them and rule them out because you think it’s all “Too Hard”, life on a whole, is hard enough as it is….
li**** Posted February 5, 2020 Posted February 5, 2020 Oh my gosh this is amazing!!!! 💜💜 And I can definitely understand hun I myself as you know have health issues ect and have been written off before by certain Dom's the ones who say "well I can't do much with you can I cause of your joints!!!!" but if they took the time to see what I can do in play and in general then they wouldn't be so quick to write me off, as I can do most in play but not be on knees and arms/elbows for too long. But cause me and Sir chatted about all this before hand he knows i can't be in a certain position for long so will tell me I can move or lie down if and when I need to. But it's clear these people that write us off caus we have mobility issues or health issues in general just don't have a clue and like you say probably wouldn't like it if they were in this situation ect. Another excellent piece of writing hun 💜💜
Eurydome Posted February 5, 2020 Posted February 5, 2020 (edited) Edited February 5, 2020 by Eurydome
Vandalslut Posted February 5, 2020 Posted February 5, 2020 Darling Pixie: it's taken me a few years to learn this and a few more to learn that it's true: those who hand out worthlessness are the ones who *** that THEY are worthless. You're gold, mate. Never allow anyone to tell you any different
Deleted Member Posted February 5, 2020 Posted February 5, 2020 You speak from the heart. Bravo.We find hero's with courage in unlit places all the time.
li**** Posted February 5, 2020 Posted February 5, 2020 (edited) 38 minutes ago, Vandalslut said: Darling Pixie: it's taken me a few years to learn this and a few more to learn that it's true: those who hand out worthlessness are the ones who *** that THEY are worthless. You're gold, mate. Never allow anyone to tell you any different I second that you have a heart of gold and you are a beautiful soul and person don't let those that clearly have insecurities themselves get you down they aren't worth it hun.💚💙💜 Edited February 5, 2020 by lil-monster
CaveBear Posted February 5, 2020 Posted February 5, 2020 Excellent piece Pixie .. Not going to say much as you know my views on it .. But very well explained .. And if the one that did this... does happen to read this then they will see that yes they did get to you but you was strong enough to hit back at them and get yourself back to your usual Pixieness ..
BigPolly Posted February 5, 2020 Posted February 5, 2020 A beautiful statement Pixie. As @white_rose pointed out in a previous thread we’re not porn stars. kink is about loosing your inhibitions in ‘your’ way & not allowing any moron to disrupt that journey. Stay beautiful & don’t explain yourself or make excuses for yourself to anyone ♥️
ca**** Posted February 5, 2020 Posted February 5, 2020 (edited) Nice one Pixie Your character, independence, attitude are all part of your courage, your strength and your persona.... and you do it well Mind you you only got 10,000 or so of the critters last time! (i am sure you will put me right if that figure is incorrect as well!) Edited February 5, 2020 by callipygian
LeedsDaddy Posted February 5, 2020 Posted February 5, 2020 I'm so sorry to hear you were disrespected so badly. You're never worthless. Stay true to yourself and don't let one bad person make you jaded. You would expect in this community, basic respect and tolerance comes as standard, but there are idiots everywhere I guess. Be well.
IndigoSigmaSwitch Posted February 5, 2020 Posted February 5, 2020 Oh pixie.. the person that did that to you is the loser here. They have yet to evolve and understand what a warm, generous and giving person you are. I don’t know you well but we have conversed and, yeah, you made me feel very comfortable and wanted. It’s your gift - and people love you because of it. Stay strong and may your light shine and grace us all♥️♥️♥️
Deleted Member Posted February 5, 2020 Posted February 5, 2020 (edited) What a plonker on the idiot who brought this about. Definitely a 'thank you for confirming you're a cockwomble, next?' situation. The only thing limited is their way of thinking and hopefully any patience you had for them. Big love xx Edited February 5, 2020 by Deleted Member Typo
Ch**** Posted February 5, 2020 Posted February 5, 2020 You've moved me out of the shadows. As one of the people that has an extremely deep understanding of what makes you tick, let me say that I know very well how much you bring to the table, and what you can do, such that your limitations almost disappear. Your sunshine (and eternal darkness, the right kind) is an asset to this site, to the world, and the kangaroo community at large. Don't let the imaginative and empathic limitations of cockwombles get you down. I have an assignment for you. Find out what a "cockwomble" is for me, and report back, please. And so, I return to the shadows.
Deleted Member Posted February 5, 2020 Posted February 5, 2020 Pixie, I have regularly exhorted people on this site to be a bit nicer to each other. Like you, I too am forgiving, accepting, empathetic, cooperative, compromising and all of those other things that go along with generally trying to be a decent person in life. Although I’ve been a member of this site for only six months or so, I too have been on the receiving end of nastiness, discrimination, general foul attitude and other unpleasant stuff coming from certain members of this site. There is not an ounce of nastiness, bitterness or anything negative in my bones. Yes, sometimes I’m misinformed, I’m somewhat naive, I’ll admit, I have a huge amount to learn and sometimes I possibly come across as being a little bit insensitive due to my lack of understanding about certain issues. But it’s not for want of trying! God knows I’m mortified if I upset anybody. And yet I’ve experienced, albeit in a different way, exactly the same sort of discrimination and intolerance that you have. If we could all just learn to be a bit nicer to each other, everything would be more pleasant. This site would be more successful and all of the members of it would undoubtedly have a better time. But of course, those of us who are reading this are already the converted and we, those of us who have posted on this thread, are the ones who are preaching to them…
Charms Posted February 6, 2020 Posted February 6, 2020 Oh sweet pixie dust. I so understand were your comeing from but with me it was none kinksters who wrote me of. I used to hide my medicale problems from my kink freinds on here . But when I opened up I got so much love. An was told by a few never to put myself down as I try my hardest. I suffer from pcos ibs migrains fibromyalgia anxiety an depression and thyroid problems. Yay me I'm 1 of them wierd people who's brain doesn't make enough ceratonin or the happy chemical our body makes normaly. I have *** tests every 3 months. If any 1 ever needs a chat just drop me a pm tell me were on this web site you fount me as I have memory loss due to a stroke I had at 25 an need to be remind of things. Stay safe have fun be kinky xxx
Vandalslut Posted February 6, 2020 Posted February 6, 2020 22 minutes ago, Charms said: Oh sweet pixie dust. I so understand were your comeing from but with me it was none kinksters who wrote me of. I used to hide my medicale problems from my kink freinds on here . But when I opened up I got so much love. An was told by a few never to put myself down as I try my hardest. I suffer from pcos ibs migrains fibromyalgia anxiety an depression and thyroid problems. Yay me I'm 1 of them wierd people who's brain doesn't make enough ceratonin or the happy chemical our body makes normaly. I have *** tests every 3 months. If any 1 ever needs a chat just drop me a pm tell me were on this web site you fount me as I have memory loss due to a stroke I had at 25 an need to be remind of things. Stay safe have fun be kinky xxx Charms, and everyone else out there - NORMAL is a cycle on your washing machine You're out there and doing it, and that's where the world needs you to be. We're all wonderfully unique, so let's carry on being unique, human and wonderful.
Charms Posted February 6, 2020 Posted February 6, 2020 4 minutes ago, Vandalslut said: Charms, and everyone else out there - NORMAL is a cycle on your washing machine You're out there and doing it, and that's where the world needs you to be. We're all wonderfully unique, so let's carry on being unique, human and wonderful. I love your reply. Normal freaks me out k like alternative people . I get to know a person b4 I judge them . Vandals stay safe b well b kinky x
Vandalslut Posted February 6, 2020 Posted February 6, 2020 (edited) I'm no poet, but I got some inspiration - no doubt being fired by anger on behalf of our Top Lass PixieDust, and I've composed a little ditty, dedicated to any Submissive who may have had a similar experience; and dedicated to the Real Dom/mes out there in the Kinkiverse...So have a laugh at the 'wanna-bes', everyone. The last two lines are a famous Aussie curse. Ef-U and your instantness Ef-U and your NOW Ef-U and your ‘GIMME!’ Ef-U, mate – and how. Ef-U and your little-man ego Ef-U and your pose Ef-U and your peacock strut Ef-U and your woes Ef-U and the horse you rode in on Ef-U, you Fake Tin-Pot Dom May your chooks all turn into emus And kick your dunny door down. Edited February 6, 2020 by Vandalslut
PixieDust Posted February 6, 2020 Author Posted February 6, 2020 Wow guys and gals where do I start, your support and kindness has been overwhelming and for that, the word thank you seems so small. I am so very, very touched and feel so blessed to have so many caring people in my life. Thank you for taking the time to care and show what true empathy and compassion is all about. I have teared up at each and every message. To @lil-monster thank you for allowing me to cry on your shoulder and for your support, encouragement and unwavering friendship, it means the world to me......and I am also sorry that you have to fight through the same ill health as me, but its what makes us, us.......strong and determined women. 💜💜💜 To @Devonsubuk my writing buddy and dear friend, thank you for the word "cockswomble" and your amazing friendship, support and the best humour out there, you rock my Devon friend. 💖💖💖 To @CaveBear you big you....you know what you mean to me, so I thank you as always for being the caring and wonderful person you are😘😘😘💖💖💖 To @Vandalslutmy dear Aussie friends, thank you always for your ears, friendship and support and the wonderful poem, I love, love, love it. 💔💔💔 To @ChromeDomI think in this case I can call you Sir just one last time ........Sir it has always been an honour and a privilege and I thank you for that ...... bless you for being the wonderful person you are. 💘💘💘 Am onto the task and will let you know 😁😋 To @BigPollythank you for being always so wonderful, for your humour and for your wisdom, our site is so blessed to have you 💖💖💖 To @callipygian thank you for your friendship and always cheering me on and yes your right the count this time was only 10,000 I will endeavor to do better next time 😋😘 To @Spanksy my pervalicous dear friend Mr Spanksy 😘 thank you for being you and always being the champion of the revolution, not wavering in your resolve and always having my back, I am very lucky to have you as my friend 💗💗💗 To @albuquerque529thank you for your kind words and taking the time to get to know me, may our new friendship continue to evolve 😊🤗 To @LeedsDaddythank you for your support and kind words 😊🤗 To @kinkyguy-1970 thank you for your kind words and support. I am so glad I could make you feel comfortable and wanted that is such a very kind thing to say and if I can ever help you again or you just want to chat please sing out. 😊🤗 To @Fredddythank you Fredddy for your message on here and the PM and all that you have said, if only there could be more "Fredddy's" in the world.....the world would be a much better place 😊🤗 To @Eurydomethank you for the hearts and the support 😊🤗 To @Charmsthank you for your words and for sharing and I so very sorry to hear you have so many health issues too, but its what makes us the people we are and the resolve we have to continue to fight and live the best life we can. 😊🤗 Thank you to everyone else who has shown the love by hitting the "like" button and taking the time out of your day to read my thread and show your support, again I am truly touched. I am also honestly humbled by the response and will say in closing that I know I am not "worthless" and that I was very upset at myself for allowing someone to make me feel that way but as with everything, we learn and we grow and hopefully never repeat the same mistakes again. I hope as a community we can continue to grow in understanding, kindness, empathy and compassion........ Cheers to you all Pixie 😘😘😘
Vandalslut Posted February 6, 2020 Posted February 6, 2020 10 hours ago, Devonsubuk said: What a plonker on the idiot who brought this about. Definitely a 'thank you for confirming you're a cockwomble, next?' situation. The only thing limited is their way of thinking and hopefully any patience you had for them. Big love xx COCKWOMBLE!!! What a brilliant word! Ideal!
CaveBear Posted February 6, 2020 Posted February 6, 2020 4 hours ago, Vandalslut said: I'm no poet, but I got some inspiration - no doubt being fired by anger on behalf of our Top Lass PixieDust, and I've composed a little ditty, dedicated to any Submissive who may have had a similar experience; and dedicated to the Real Dom/mes out there in the Kinkiverse...So have a laugh at the 'wanna-bes', everyone. The last two lines are a famous Aussie curse. Ef-U and your instantness Ef-U and your NOW Ef-U and your ‘GIMME!’ Ef-U, mate – and how. Ef-U and your little-man ego Ef-U and your pose Ef-U and your peacock strut Ef-U and your woes Ef-U and the horse you rode in on Ef-U, you Fake Tin-Pot Dom May your chooks all turn into emus And kick your dunny door down. Brilliant .. Loved it .. And fully agree .. A lot out there have no idea how to treat a submissive ..
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