Dungeon in Birmingham

[Garrett-4904]

Has anyone heard of Deluxe kink dungeon in Birmingham. I have a possible mistress that wants to take me there but I can’t find it on any site. Is it a scam ?

[Cu****]

If she wants you to pay for new toys and book the dungeon through her, then yes it probably is a scam. Have you physically met your mistress in person? Ask loads of open ended, easy questions to see what red flags come winging their way back to you. Remember, this is the internet, where anyone can be anyone they like. Fantasy. Don’t part with any ***, unless you like your bank account emptying.

[Ce****]

Is this Birmingham UK?

[Ce****]

I won't claim to be an expert but I'm a bit active on the Birmingham/West Midlands scene. But I have never heard of this Dungeon/club unless they do not advertise to kinksters or run/hold events for kinksters. Or maybe new or really small.
I think @CumbriaLeather is right and gave good advice.
 

[Silenthunter]

I found the website, I won't post the link here, but if you type the full name into Google, for me it was tbe to one. Though donethong feels wrong about it dunno about the Mistress, but the website throws off creepy vibes.

[Submissiveman2u]

Keep your ***, go for a pint and a curry on way home with it....

[Al****]

Be weary of these types of suggestions. I was once talking to a Domme who suggested I buy some toys for myself and directed me to a website. I Said I had purchased a few things but "she" said I hadn't as she would have also received a confirmation even though she had not given me a referral code.

Easy way to see if real or not is to say is to pretend to book and then say to her that you have. See what her reaction is

[Garrett-4904]

Ok thanks guys

[ey****]

it's a scam

so - let's see

a Mistress you don't know contacts you, offers to play with you and "show you the way" seems to tell you everything you want to hear and has very little pushback

she's really interested and wants to play, she seemingly has a lot of availability.  She recommends a dungeon and the deal is simple; you pay for hire and she will meet you there and do seemingly unlimited play

and at this point - you don't find it odd that you've never met anywhere neutral, or had a call, or discussed individual limits, or even attempted to get to know each other on platonic terms.

Anyway.

So, you pay this dungeon hire, feeling... well even if things don't work out maybe someone else will take the hire or you can see what it's like etc.   And, yeah, funnily enough after you've paid she goes quiet.

As does the dungeon.

You either never get an address, or if you do...

If you do - when you turn up on the day, you find the property doesn't exist - it's number 88 on a street with 80 houses, or it's an unused flat above a chip shop or a demolished/condemned property or whatever

and by all this point the scammer is long gone. 

If you ever do get someone you think might be legit research and suggest other dungeons in the area - although what you may find is the 'scam' dungeon is expensive, but still cheaper than these.   I just paid £300 for 6 hours hire in a legit dungeon, which is about normal - so if somewhere is offering £250 for 8 hours or overnight, well, you see why folk lean towards the fake. 

[Garrett-4904]

Thanks it’s not happening for exactly for the reasons you have quoted. I am not easily parted with my ***. I am not tight but I am no fool either.

[D-****]

Definitely a scam

[Re****]

Watch out, likely scam troll,
Are you out of pocket a tribute?

[Re****]

I have had the scam attempted 5 times on this site. I know to watch for it. Always ask them first, where are you from. One lady told me she would jet in for some fun if I only paid the tribute.......

[ey****]

5 hours ago, RetroNic said:

Watch out, likely scam troll,
Are you out of pocket a tribute?

in this case the scam works specifically by NOT asking for a tribute

it's very "No, I don't want paid - you seem cool, I want to meet and play.... ....but this is the dungeon you must book on the links I provided"