Mistress

[Deleted Member]

I am new to being a sub for a mistress. Is it normal for them to want me to write on my body that i am owned by them?

[Deleted Member]

Also is a bdsm contract normal

[Ka****]

No. Thats wired

[Na****]

I think that’s ok, as long as it’s not a tattoo

[Deleted Member]

Both or just one

[cu****]

It’s ok

[Deleted Member]

Is signing up for a website for a bdsm contract normal?

[Deleted Member]

If you’re not comfortable doing it then say that. If she doesn’t respect that then walk away.

[Ac****]

A BDSM contract 100% screams scammer be careful 💪

[Deleted Member]

  1 minute ago, ActionMan1990 said:

A BDSM contract 100% screams scammer be careful 💪

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Preciate im just gonna walk away bc i dont feel comfy signing up for a website for a contract

[Ka****]

  3 minutes ago, ActionMan1990 said:

A BDSM contract 100% screams scammer be careful 💪

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He is right

[Deleted Member]

  4 minutes ago, KarlJ-1915 said:

He is right

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Appreciate yall

[My****]

Don't blame you not wanting to sign a contract but what a feeling being able to give up total control as an adult it's really something just knowing you'd find someone willing to be responsible for your care

[Deleted Member]

  5 minutes ago, Mytunghurts said:

Don't blame you not wanting to sign a contract but what a feeling being able to give up total control as an adult it's really something just knowing you'd find someone willing to be responsible for your care

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Well its not that im oposed to signing a contract its the fact that the website she had sent seemed sketchy

[Deleted Member]

I occasionally have my subs write on themselves in pen or lipstick. Nothing permanent unless it's agreed upon and waaaaaaaay down the road after years of committed relationship. As for a contract, I have one which is also for a committed relationship, because it outlines the expectations, responsibilities, hard limits, safe words/gestures for both parties involved.

[ey****]

  1 hour ago, xiro_storm said:

I am new to being a sub for a mistress. Is it normal for them to want me to write on my body that i am owned by them?

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it's common-ish in online play, but would you want to do this for someone you're not owned by

equally, what specifically is she asking you to write - as she may  be going to use that to try to verify somewhere

[ey****]

  1 hour ago, xiro_storm said:

Also is a bdsm contract normal

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they can be a fun addition to a dynamic, or a good way to work out together how a dynamic is going to work.  However, they are not legally binding - they are just for *play*

[ey****]

  1 hour ago, xiro_storm said:

Is signing up for a website for a bdsm contract normal?

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is it a template? (maybe)

is it something you have to pay for? (no) 

[My****]

Just do as you're told is that too much to ask

[Deleted Member]

  16 minutes ago, eyemblacksheep said:

is it a template? (maybe)

is it something you have to pay for? (no) 

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It was a website where i had to create an account and pay for a membership in order to get a contract

[ey****]

  40 minutes ago, xiro_storm said:

It was a website where i had to create an account and pay for a membership in order to get a contract

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yeah, scam

[BruiseWayne]

No dude the whole 'website contract' thing that you have to pay for is a scam. Don't do that. You're only going to lose your *** and be disappointed.

[BruiseWayne]

The writing is normal, but no neither of those things are.

 

The contract and signing up for a website are tools for scammers.

 

Don't ever do that.

Edited November 26, 2024 by BruiseWayne

[Du****]

Can be depending on the Dom or mistress

[TimberTara]

Yes