The characteristics of a high valued sub male

December 9, 2024

If there are any women who are dominant or gay male dominant, what are your five indications that a sub is of high value?

Mine
1. Well groomed.
2. Well educated.
3 very self aware
4 Politically astute
5. Sense of humor,
6. sense of compassion

December 9, 2024

1. great looking ( should be my type) / a girl should be cute ( groomed I won’t even tell cause it’s a must)
2. well endowed and be able using it very well and share my kinks/ for the girl I don’t have any requirements. Maybe just have a groomed body, not much overweight but I won’t mind she is as curvy as me. I don’t care if she has big or little tits. The age of a girl doesn’t really matter, the guys should be at least max 30 years old. If it’s a transgirl- as much feminine as possible and already in the therapy.
3. very intelligent (I am not into boring people with the lack of education). I have an academic degree and expect at least some self learning skills from a sub
4. interesting personality with his/ her own hobbies besides the bed.
5. metalhead. It’s very important to me a guy is from the metal scene. The girl should like at least some hard music too.
6. be able to have a good discussion/ conversation ( politic, philosophy, a so on)
7. it should be a sparkle and the right vibe

Dassit 🙃🙃

December 9, 2024

I really love this question.. going to try to answer it as a sub based on what things have been important for me or made/broken relationships with Domme’s of the past (hope that’s okay everybody).

1. Loyalty/devotion
2. A willingness and ability to communicate
3. Flexibility and an eagerness to serve
4. Being capable yet still choosing to submit out of a genuine respect for your Domme
5. Helps if you’re cute

December 9, 2024

Thank you, @MzHydra! I love this question!!

For me, in order
1. It sounds egotistical, but if I feel a sense of pride owning someone. Submission is a gift, and if you throw it around so freely, then it doesn't feel very valuable. Most of my high in a Dom state is that my sub is mine because they proved themselves to be choosey and we truly matched.
2. Hygiene - I want someone who matches my energy on dress and upkeep. (I also like to own pretty things, lol)
3. Emotional intelligence/availability - is an advocate for themselves and is able to express their emotions or at least have an ability to recognize that maybe the emotion is too big for words and will need a minute to digest.
4. Health/stamina - I'm in the gym for 2 hours a day... I definitely need someone to at least keep up. Period.
5. Empathy - it's really more what I look for in everyone, but for a sub, I would want them to understand that while 24/7 is a goal, it's not 100% feasible, so low protocol days will happen and that sometimes batteries need to recharge.

December 9, 2024

1. Prompt. When I want something, I want it now.

2. Submissive. There are too many men that think that they are submissive, when in fact they are really just a bottom wanting others to fulfill their fantasies.

3. Intelligent. I don't like stupid people.

4. Good listener. I shouldn't have to repeat myself.

5. Loyal. I don't share what's mine.

6. Fit/good looking. I don't like ugly things. (Bonus for wearing glitter and cute dresses.)

Edited December 9, 2024 by TheMacabreBrat

December 9, 2024

6 hours ago, MzHydra said:

Politically astute

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Sorry, English isn't my firt language and the dictionary says it is a synonym for smart or wise. Could you please precise what you mean with it? It would be interesting.

December 9, 2024

25 minutes ago, Krateros said:

Sorry, English isn't my firt language and the dictionary says it is a synonym for smart or wise. Could you please precise what you mean with it? It would be interesting.

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I'm pretty sure they just mean the sub should be on the same level and have similar opinions politically