How do I know if a club is genuine?

[Boredbusinessguy]

I have potentially met a mistress online and she is asking me to pay to join circlebdsm* club. As a newbie is this club genuine or should I avoid it?

 

Thanks

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[fu****]

Generally speaking, anyone asking you to pay something is not usually legit. I could be wrong about this one, but in my experience all those I've heard about is a scam

[fu****]

Especially something that's pay to join

[le****]

You are being scammed.

[Ro****]

Scam is coming!

[Boredbusinessguy]

Thanks all, I thought so as well. 

[Sc****]

This post is a scam, too

[le****]

To add something more helpful, depending on where you live, there will be real life communities for you to join. Look for modern communities based on consent that advertise themselves as safe spaces. "Munches" are often a great place to start and socialize. These often take place in public bars and restaurants and are generally free to join. Talk to the people there, get a bunch of kinky friends, and work from there. The only situation in which you are asked to pay is parties with paid tickets. That's fair. Everything else is a scam.

[ey****]

you are being scammed

 

[Ki****]

Definite play for play scam....a little research goes a long way

[Di****]

That sounds like a scam to me

[Il****]

Yeah, real dommes aren't employed by "clubs", most are independent contractors, and if they do work at a dungeon, they're most likely independently renting space there. Please also learn how to spot AI photos and reverse image search. If a domme looks too good to be true, then she probably is.

[ey****]

in answer to the question on  how do you know if a club is genuine

In some ways, a little bit research is all it takes.  Firstly, google the club name, is it local - can you find it or work out what you would need to do to be given the address ? If no, then it's probably not legit

If you're not so sure - then joining a club suggests you'd be willing to join community; seek out details of munches local to you and attend those.   Ask people there about the club.

And if maybe this isn't a route you want to go down.  Why are you going to a club you know nothing about, even unsure if it exists, with a person you never met?   Arrange to meet up with them.  Get them to take you to the club.  There's no reason you cannot buy membership there?!

 

[Bu****]

Don't be desperate my guy... guaranteed she's not it. Join fetlife go to parties and munches I can guarantee you'll have better success.
This site (experienced Pleasure Dom) isn't what it's lead on to be. Just more tinder wannabe freaks, who have no clue what Kink is. If you're a sub your boundaries should be FUCKING SET and never compromise. This should be a boundary. Join a club? No thanks, not unless she's literally handing you a discount after a trial session.
Imagine a man tries to do this shit.
Don't be desperate.

[0m****]

R U N 🏃 if she’s genuine then meet in public somewhere local. If she doesn’t know anywhere local or makes excuses report her.

[GB****]

If you question it it’s probably not genuine. Lots of scammers appear on this site. Be leery of people asking for *** for anything. Yes, there are legitimate doms/dommes who want a financial tribute, but I usually steer clear of them as it’s sometimes hard to tell real from scam.