Big, Fat Lie

[Br****]

Wow! Yall got the MODS on this!!!

[ka****]

Well said

[Sb****]

Love this and all true!

[DD****]

If you can’t love a bigger girl properly I feel sorry for you. You’re missing out. Truly the best of the best

[4g****]

I can’t change my biology and my body tells me what I like. Everyone is different.
The layers of loving a chubby girl are the same as loving a skinny one.

[Na****]

Except this discussion isn't about loving skinny girls, so opinions and comments to that extent have no place (i.e. keeping it on topic)

[DJWolfDen]

I had commented on this but seems like it was removed I don't know why I prefer chubby girls myself as a loving daddy Dom that's what I want and that would be the kind of person who I would love to have in my life and I accept a chubby girl for who and what she is no matter what

[DJWolfDen]

I think I have always had a preference for a chubby girl because that is the kind of girl who I prefer to have because the love the emotions the personalities are what I tend to look for

[Th****]

  2 hours ago, DJWolfDen said:

I think I have always had a preference for a chubby girl because that is the kind of girl who I prefer to have because the love the emotions the personalities are what I tend to look for

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Isn't that a contradiction though? Chubby isn't an emotion or personality trait. It's all about how someone looks

[DJWolfDen]

No I don't feel it's a contradiction actually yes I do have a preference for chubby girls the way they look because along with that with good personalities and wanting love just as much as everybody else does that's what I look for

[Br****]

  20 hours ago, DJWolfDen said:

I had commented on this but seems like it was removed I don't know why I prefer chubby girls myself as a loving daddy Dom that's what I want and that would be the kind of person who I would love to have in my life and I accept a chubby girl for who and what she is no matter what

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I’m sorry your comment was removed before I could see it. Your statement is partially what my post was all about. There are so many people who claim they like big girls/chubby girls/thick girls, but they only do it in private and even then they’re reluctant and skeptical about how to treat us. We really are wonderful people to know and love and interact with. And we can be great in bed with the right motivation and comfort level.
Thanks for loving us 🫂

[DJWolfDen]

I agree with you completely on this

[De****]

This was such a brave, beautiful, *** post ❤️

[ja****]

Kei you are a beautiful person I’ve had the pleasure of chatting up for quite sometime. Always a pleasure to see you in my inbox 😁.

[No****]

@BrattyKei320
First of all, I think I just fell in love with you a little bit.
You’re correct. All of this is correct. So are many of the comments.

Bigger women take more effort. I think part of the reason though isn’t just the nerves and anatomy but emotionally - it’s hard to get out of your head after decades of brainwashing that your body isn’t supposed to be feeling this good, it’s not supposed to be appreciated or treated this way, your bigger body isn’t attractive. So after all of the shaming and teasing and cruelty that happens growing up and trying to date, it’s so hard to let go of that voice in the back of our minds that says this is
Wrong even when you know it’s not.

Maybe it’s just me but the physiological part of it plays a huge role in this.

[No****]

  52 minutes ago, Novelnorth86 said:

@BrattyKei320
First of all, I think I just fell in love with you a little bit.
You’re correct. All of this is correct. So are many of the comments.

Bigger women take more effort. I think part of the reason though isn’t just the nerves and anatomy but emotionally - it’s hard to get out of your head after decades of brainwashing that your body isn’t supposed to be feeling this good, it’s not supposed to be appreciated or treated this way, your bigger body isn’t attractive. So after all of the shaming and teasing and cruelty that happens growing up and trying to date, it’s so hard to let go of that voice in the back of our minds that says this is
Wrong even when you know it’s not.

Maybe it’s just me but the physiological part of it plays a huge role in this.

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I meant psychological**

[Br****]

  Friday at 07:43 PM, jacksonville552 said:

Kei you are a beautiful person I’ve had the pleasure of chatting up for quite sometime. Always a pleasure to see you in my inbox 😁.

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Awe, thank you alive. Always wonderful to chat with you as well. Will hit you up soon 💋💋💋

[Br****]

  10 hours ago, Novelnorth86 said:

@BrattyKei320
First of all, I think I just fell in love with you a little bit.
You’re correct. All of this is correct. So are many of the comments.

Bigger women take more effort. I think part of the reason though isn’t just the nerves and anatomy but emotionally - it’s hard to get out of your head after decades of brainwashing that your body isn’t supposed to be feeling this good, it’s not supposed to be appreciated or treated this way, your bigger body isn’t attractive. So after all of the shaming and teasing and cruelty that happens growing up and trying to date, it’s so hard to let go of that voice in the back of our minds that says this is
Wrong even when you know it’s not.

Maybe it’s just me but the physiological part of it plays a huge role in this.

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Oh My! Sweetheart all that love right back to you. TOTALLY AGREE! Usually the people who say they love us “they wanna be with us “they have a fetish for us “and all that other talk they don’t understand that our insecurity stems not just from what said about us today, but what has been said to us over the course of some years. If we’re bold enough to step out there and start dating and not be hermits, then we need them to be bold enough to help us with those insecurities, those voices in our head, and all the other gunk we gotta sort through in order to get to the point in our life and in our hearts, and in our emotions that we are deserving of being loved and appreciated for who we are and how we’re built. We have had a lifetime of being “dealt with“… why not just love us? Except us? Appreciate us? Indulge in us? Enjoy us? Take care of us? Secure us?
I seriously have a theory that people’s negative opinions and outlook on people who look like us is the reason why “catfishing” became such a prevalent thing to do. Make you fall in love with my personality, and my dreams, and my goals, my values, my desires and everything about me that is non-physical before I show you my real body.

[DJWolfDen]

I know that for many years I have always been attracted to and had the desire for bigger women because of their personality because of the love the attraction, the happiness and so much more. When a bigger woman chooses to be in my life I want that to be for life because I want no one else because she will mean the world to me she will be everything to me

[No****]

  1 hour ago, BrattyKei320 said:

Oh My! Sweetheart all that love right back to you. TOTALLY AGREE! Usually the people who say they love us “they wanna be with us “they have a fetish for us “and all that other talk they don’t understand that our insecurity stems not just from what said about us today, but what has been said to us over the course of some years. If we’re bold enough to step out there and start dating and not be hermits, then we need them to be bold enough to help us with those insecurities, those voices in our head, and all the other gunk we gotta sort through in order to get to the point in our life and in our hearts, and in our emotions that we are deserving of being loved and appreciated for who we are and how we’re built. We have had a lifetime of being “dealt with“… why not just love us? Except us? Appreciate us? Indulge in us? Enjoy us? Take care of us? Secure us?
I seriously have a theory that people’s negative opinions and outlook on people who look like us is the reason why “catfishing” became such a prevalent thing to do. Make you fall in love with my personality, and my dreams, and my goals, my values, my desires and everything about me that is non-physical before I show you my real body.

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Absolutely. We require so much more reassurance and affection to drown out those things. It’s not that we’re not confident. It’s not that we really believe we don’t deserve the same love and attention and respect but that we’ve settled so often looking for those things that the real thing is hard to accept and see for what it is. We’re always waiting for the other shoe to drop.
I have to appreciate the men that take the time to be vocal about their attraction to bbq/plus size/curvy women. The men who take us out on dates and show us off and tell us we’re beautiful in every way. Those are the men who fix things they didn’t break without even knowing it. The men that kiss places you didn’t imagine without hesitation. Those men build unbreakable foundations. So, big shout out to the men who lift us up because it gets hard to do alone sometimes and it really does take a partner sometimes to get you there.

[Br****]

Lol@ bbq… cuz my hungry a$$ thought “ Barbeque” 🤣🤣🤣

[Diegovl-9868]

You can't speak for everyone but I adore big girls hell it's something about them that brings out the best in me