BDSM tests accuracy

[ge****]

I have always wondered how important it is to take bdsm test. Should everyone take the bdsm test? Is it common for results to change after some time once you explore your kink? How often should someone take BDSM tests?

[un****]

the main sh*t like sadism etc has always stayed the same but the non major sh*t  I'm into has fluctuated over time but everything over all has stayed relatively the same

[Dom4U406]

The test is fun, but not definitive. And, yes, it can change over time. BDSM is a continuum, not a fixed trait. Take the test once for life, or once a year, whatever you want.

[ju****]

If you feel it is inaccurate retake

[Leisa]

I think the test reflects where you are during a specific time in your life. It’s based on your answers and isn’t a complete concept of who you will be in six months. If you’re relying on a test to tell you who you are, it’s going to tell you only what you want to see. We all change and evolve so our results will also change and evolve.

[No****]

I don’t think they are accurate at all

[Th****]

BDSM tests are about as important and accurate as the tests you can take to see what Disney princess you are

[SadoDaddy2024]

It's not accurate, for many people, because the questions aren't always the right ones & you have to answer what is closest to true, or rather in some cases, the option that is the least untrue, not what is actually true.

[Ca****]

I’d say getting out and experiencing your interests is far more important than the test. Doing it will always give you a better idea of what you enjoy and what you don’t than any test or quiz ever will.

[Co****]

Taking the test primarily provides something on your profile which gives other people information so they have some idea what you are into. It’s not really a self-diagnostic tool. If you aren’t sure what you are into it is probably best to have some conversations and perhaps try some things to see what you really like.

[ge****]

2 hours ago, undeaddom said:

the main sh*t like sadism etc has always stayed the same but the non major sh*t  I'm into has fluctuated over time but everything over all has stayed relatively the same

Oh well I appreciate your feedback :)

[ge****]

2 hours ago, Dom4U406 said:

The test is fun, but not definitive. And, yes, it can change over time. BDSM is a continuum, not a fixed trait. Take the test once for life, or once a year, whatever you want.

I agree with you when it comes to the change in time for sure.

[ge****]

2 hours ago, justhere76 said:

If you feel it is inaccurate retake

Got it

[ge****]

2 hours ago, Leisa said:

I think the test reflects where you are during a specific time in your life. It’s based on your answers and isn’t a complete concept of who you will be in six months. If you’re relying on a test to tell you who you are, it’s going to tell you only what you want to see. We all change and evolve so our results will also change and evolve.

I guess you are absolutely right. We evolve all the time, so definitely the results will always change and evolve within us. I think the tests are overall valuable.

[ge****]

2 hours ago, Notti_my_Fault said:

I don’t think they are accurate at all

Why do you think so?

[ge****]

2 hours ago, TheMacabreBrat said:

BDSM tests are about as important and accurate as the tests you can take to see what Disney princess you are

You got me sold as soon as you mentioned “Disney princess.” 👸

[ge****]

2 hours ago, SadoDaddy2024 said:

It's not accurate, for many people, because the questions aren't always the right ones & you have to answer what is closest to true, or rather in some cases, the option that is the least untrue, not what is actually true.

I guess it’s not easier to find the right website with proper updates software and accurate questions.

[ge****]

1 hour ago, CandieRainn said:

I’d say getting out and experiencing your interests is far more important than the test. Doing it will always give you a better idea of what you enjoy and what you don’t than any test or quiz ever will.

That’s true. I think practice makes us better, stronger, and perfect. It’s all about the right individual at the right time enjoying the actions and fun time.

[ge****]

24 minutes ago, ColoShark said:

Taking the test primarily provides something on your profile which gives other people information so they have some idea what you are into. It’s not really a self-diagnostic tool. If you aren’t sure what you are into it is probably best to have some conversations and perhaps try some things to see what you really like.

I guess when I started using Fet, they always suggest you give that bdsm test so that they can find you possibly right matches around the area or in general, so I guess you are right. Well said.

[Ra****]

I think so much of what the test covers can (at least for some of us) be so highly mutable contingent on partner, environment, and opportunity.
I know personally, I'm in general mostly 'meh' on both sides of many of the things it asks about, but with a partner who was extremely positive about one or more, my answers could be highly different in that circumstance.

[ro****]

All the tests you'll find on the net are just giving hints on what might float your boat.
It's nice to see the tests outcome in the profiles but just to give a hint if it might match or not. Example: You define uourselve as masochistic but the test shows that you are not it might be that your masochism is driven by submission. Therefore, someone who is solely sadistic but not dominant might be the wrong person for you.
It's also nice to reflect yourself asking what you're really looking for. And yes, of course, it varies. Time, experiences, and the person you have in mind while taking the test might influence the results.

m2c

rootcause

[Da****]

My sexual kinks are always changing , but traditionally I always do every 6 months

[Lsmart938]

I like to read profiles in full and BDSM tests before messaging anyone and I try to personalise my opening message in line with what I read.

(I obviously need to work harder at it though 😣 ).

But I think everyone should do one otherwise it always “what are you into “ or “what are you looking for “

It’s also a good idea to re-do them every now and then because people change, get new experiences, new fads, bored with routine and want excitement or change etc. - So yes, they can change.

[ey****]

it's not important at all to take one

their purpose is kinda to help the individual - like if you're new and unsure "oh, where do I fit in" etc - do a quick test and it might give you a suggestion of what you might classify as and where learning goes from there

and yes, they may well change over time as new ideas come to light, or "actually..." moments 

[ro****]

My "best approach" is: have a look at yourself and see where you might fit in.
I, myself, don't see me like being a brat tamer or pet owner or DaddyDom. Still my test shows that I'm having a caregiving side, which I can't deny. Even though I don't define myself as a "member" of those sub-categories the test gives a hint that I might be something what a friend of mine called "caregiving and caring sadistic Dom" 😅

Edited 8 hours ago by rootcause