Rewards

[Mi****]

I'm what some consider a soft Domme. I can punish when it's needed or warranted, but I prefer a good subby that I can reward for being a good boy!

I have a few ideas of ways to reward, but I would like some more ideas for ways to reward.

[StaindGlassHeart]

Online or in person?

[Mu****]

Mistress, the ultimate reward will be a Queening Session. That's my opinion

[10****]

Is devotion out of the question?

[10****]

Because that’s something that I’m really looking forward to but idk if it’ll come from this app or not

[Mi****]

Ideally, the best reward would be to satisfy their sexual craving. Whether it be through a hand job or a blow job

[da****]

Honestly whatever my owner sees fit to do is acceptable to me

[Be****]

Ask your sub to list top 5 rewards in order.
He'd know best.

However, if this is a general question for , perhaps a play party scene with men you don't have an established relationship with, you can ask them the same question.

Here are some ideas from things I've experienced or seen that I've tailored to your soft-domme profile:
Facesitting
Take him out of his cage and tease him
Let him cum on your feet and then lick them clean
Let him ***t your toenails for a better reward
Ruined orgasm (various methods)
Pegging
Allow him to give you a full body massage
Tell him he's earned one day less in his cage...only 20 days to go!
Take him shopping to Victoria's Secret and buy him a pair of panties to go with his cage.
Edge him multiple times then re-cage with our orgasm...his reward was your attention to his cock.

[Ki****]

I’m in an incredibly gentle horny mood right now. You in Your chair with me at your feet and tae th’ side. I can feel the languid swinging of my leash connect the collar encircling my throat to your hand and I can feel that hand move down to scratch my nape and scalp… finally moving up front to twiddle my moustache and comb my chin with your fingertips and I sense you and then *feel* you as you lean forward and in low tones meant for my ears ears only *Squeee* I hear a throaty low, “Good Girl and Boys”.

I’m now a gooey puddle that needs a Take Five to reboot the brain. TY 👸🏽🐦‍⬛

[Mi****]

  10 hours ago, StaindGlassHeart said:

Online or in person?

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In person

[Mi****]

  6 hours ago, BedroomDom said:

Ask your sub to list top 5 rewards in order.
He'd know best.

However, if this is a general question for , perhaps a play party scene with men you don't have an established relationship with, you can ask them the same question.

Here are some ideas from things I've experienced or seen that I've tailored to your soft-domme profile:
Facesitting
Take him out of his cage and tease him
Let him cum on your feet and then lick them clean
Let him ***t your toenails for a better reward
Ruined orgasm (various methods)
Pegging
Allow him to give you a full body massage
Tell him he's earned one day less in his cage...only 20 days to go!
Take him shopping to Victoria's Secret and buy him a pair of panties to go with his cage.
Edge him multiple times then re-cage with our orgasm...his reward was your attention to his cock.

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I love this idea! It's brilliant!!! Thank yoy!!!

[Sa****]

Yes!

[Deleted Member]

Maybe some new sissy panties or a new cock cage

[Ne****]

But ask in a few he doesn’t know for what it is,
Otherwise you spoil the fun on my opinion

[ka****]

Yeah your my kinda dom👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[ka****]

If I were to dub, but I’m the total opposite kinda dom myself🤭

[ka****]

Sub*

[Ro****]

My personal favorite reward would be to be allowed to cum all over my sweet domme wherever it was she would allow and then getting the opportunity to clean her up. Perhaps a little teasing as she kept some from me to use as lube when she pegged me.

[Mi****]

  19 minutes ago, RockfordSub86 said:

My personal favorite reward would be to be allowed to cum all over my sweet domme wherever it was she would allow and then getting the opportunity to clean her up. Perhaps a little teasing as she kept some from me to use as lube when she pegged me.

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I do like that idea!

[ey****]

I feel rewards are very much down to individual and dynamic

Some people would be very happy with a "Good Boy/Girl" and/or a gold star

some might prefer an orgasm - or a favourite activity

For some it might be a material treat (a new toy, etc) though for others it can be going out for a meal together, hell, for some it can be being allowed to sit at the table.

 

[Mi****]

  7 hours ago, eyemblacksheep said:

I feel rewards are very much down to individual and dynamic

Some people would be very happy with a "Good Boy/Girl" and/or a gold star

some might prefer an orgasm - or a favourite activity

For some it might be a material treat (a new toy, etc) though for others it can be going out for a meal together, hell, for some it can be being allowed to sit at the table.

 

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I get that. I was just looking for a few ideas so I can come up with a plan. You did give quite a few more ideas thank you!

[Al****]

Im very fond of praise, neck kisses, maybe little bites. Being held would be a good reward, too, depending on the sub, just letting them rest their head in your lap while you pet their head after they do a good job. I'd go crazy for a girl who'd treat me that way.

[Mi****]

  26 minutes ago, Alex_TheNoob said:

Im very fond of praise, neck kisses, maybe little bites. Being held would be a good reward, too, depending on the sub, just letting them rest their head in your lap while you pet their head after they do a good job. I'd go crazy for a girl who'd treat me that way.

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I'd assist her by devouring her pussy

[Rh****]

Aside from the obvious, "Good boy" or "I'm proud of you", which is always good for making me shiver, Mistress telling me to sit with her & she scratches my back or scalp, or simply just pulls me close & cuddles or holds me or a part of me (hand or arm in arm). Sitting on the couch with Her, Her legs across my thighs & me rubbing Her feet, just talking like partners & lovers.

[Deleted Member]

In general, take some ideas from your sub and surprise him with it later.

Some of mine:
-A massage from or for mistress
-the next toy to be used being one of the slaves choice
-vanilla cuddles and datey stuff
-CEI/Countdown
- choice of collar or leash for play