Anal only dating

[lo****]

Anal only date is an ultimate fantasy for a long time now. I’m so pleased to see I’m not completely hopeless since there are aimed ładus who share the passion up here. Is it a good idea to discuss the kik foranal precisely to make sure it’s a mutual understanding and there is misunderstanding on the way to ass only experience?

[be****]

I also have that same fetish.. I’m curious to see the ladies responses to this.. I definitely think the discussion is paramount though ahead of time, and I’m sure you’re open to sharing their kinks and the sort too if they’re not necessarily the same..
really like to hear from the ladies here though on this..

[su****]

I would surely love to have a friend that was anal only! I love anal and most guys get so excited about the rest of me anal is the last idea and we are spent…

[ju****]

Never tried anal tbh

[ju****]

Couod be hot tho

[Th****]

As long as it's discussed as soon as possible. I'm not sure how many ladies would be willing to do anal only because we get no pleasure from it.

 

Why would a woman do anything that she doesn't enjoy?

At least my understanding is that the only one getting anal sex is you (the man) aka pegging.

Edited February 21 by TheMacabreBrat
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[Ch****]

  1 hour ago, TheMacabreBrat said:

As long as it's discussed as soon as possible. I'm not sure how many ladies would be willing to do anal only because we get no pleasure from it.

 

Why would a woman do anything that she doesn't enjoy?

At least my understanding is that the only one getting anal sex is you (the man) aka pegging.

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There are many strap-ons that are double-ended. There are even ones which were created to be used without a harness. Many women enjoy having one end inside themselves, whether with another person with an innie (vag/anal/oral) or with a person that has an outie (anal/oral). Some women even like to have a double-ended one stroked. So yes, women can be stimulated by it. Not to mention that anal only doesn't necessarily mean not touching elsewhere. I read it as only anal penetration. Again, as always, discuss first.

[Ch****]

  1 hour ago, TheMacabreBrat said:

As long as it's discussed as soon as possible. I'm not sure how many ladies would be willing to do anal only because we get no pleasure from it.

 

Why would a woman do anything that she doesn't enjoy?

At least my understanding is that the only one getting anal sex is you (the man) aka pegging.

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Adding on, many women enjoy receiving anal, too. Big ol' spectrum!

[th****]

Echoing the sentiment above, if anal is ***ful, for example, it's being done incorrectly- this is what butt plugs are for. The varying sizes are meant to be graduated from smallest to largest to accommodate for larger objects. Like cocks, of course!

This is all bearing in mind that one must also have a quality lubricant, the desire to prep beforehand (unless the couple is into mudding, of course) and using plenty of lube throughout the anal session. I've been shocked and surprised at how many men don't understand that anal is a process, not a "shove it right in" situation.

It's messy, requires patience, and above all else, listening to your partner if they tell you something hurts.

Signed, a trans girl who loves giving and receiving ♡

[al****]

As a girl into all the butt stuff my main issue with dating someone into a lot of anal is 1. I don’t always want it and 2. Sometimes the body just can’t be prepared and even if I do want it, it ain’t happening that night.
To the original poster- yes communication very early in the game; but here’s my question to you, if the person didn’t want anal, what would that mean for sexy time? Heavy petting? Oral? Would you say no to any sexual activity or is it that anal is just preferred?

Everyone else- please be assured that as a girl yes, it is pleasurable, yes it’s hot af and yes some of us even want to return the favor 😘🤤🍑

[mr****]

Anal is good I love it especially if your partner into it sexy asf gripping my BBC gives me a extra boost

[Ha****]

Communication is key, and it’s a process. Use lots of lube and take time with it. Being quite large girth wise myself, it can take some time before you can actually ‘fuck’ properly. So yeah, take time and listen to your partner. Women can derive a lot of pleasure from it but the line of *** and pleasure can be quite thin if you don’t pace yourself..

[On****]

I had this conversation with a guy the other day. I absolutely understood what he wanted.. he told me maybe 50 times and then didn't move on from the topic! I get anal is great, but there's more to life than just having one kink and nothing around the picture (not that you do.. just my observation). Is anal even kinky any more anyway?

[Th****]

Anal can be tricky, but easily figured out with communication. Some are anti, some like it gentle, and some like their insides rearranged lol. Me personally, i love to take advantage of all the holes, if given the green light

[Me****]

I was lucky my girlfriend was willing to try without me having to convince her at all. A tip for doing anything with a girls butt if she hasn’t ever tried anything is use your fingers or a small toy and slowly progress. It takes time especially since you don’t want to hurt her or make her abandon the act all together. Good luck and I hope you guys will both be happy with how it turns out. 🤘🏻