Disabled friendly kink

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  25 minutes ago, arnhem961 said:

Any experience with tantric sex? Focusing on your breath and body may be a good thing & that's tied to Tantra a lot.

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No I haven't! I should look into that!!

[GreyHog]

  On 3/4/2025 at 4:55 AM, Notti_my_Fault said:

Arthritis website has some good position ideas for having sex. I’m disabled too. Before a session I tell my Dom of any areas that particularly hurt that day. During a session he regularly checks in and I say if anything isn’t working. We are looking at working on a traffic light system to use during play. Good luck

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I've used the "Traffic Light" system for safe words for many years and they really help. I'm disabled, Dom, sadist. I've played with disabled submissives of and on. Patience, communication and HONEST feedback are paramount. If something hurts in a bad way, say so. If you like something, say so. If you want to try something new, say so. I know it's hard for introverts to speak up, but a patient dom will ask the questions and encourage two-way communication. Good luck in your exploration!

[Gr****]

Raven Kaldera wrote a series of books on disability and kink that you might find helpful:

• Kneeling in Spirit: Disabled Submissives

• Hell on Wheels: Disabled Dominants

• Broken Toys: Submissives With Mental Illness and Neurological Dysfunction
• Mastering Mind: Dominants With Mental Illness and Neurological Dysfunction

[Ne****]

  Friday at 02:45 PM, Griot said:

Raven Kaldera wrote a series of books on disability and kink that you might find helpful:

• Kneeling in Spirit: Disabled Submissives

• Hell on Wheels: Disabled Dominants

• Broken Toys: Submissives With Mental Illness and Neurological Dysfunction
• Mastering Mind: Dominants With Mental Illness and Neurological Dysfunction

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I’m very interested the last one now as someone who is autistic ADHD PTSD BPD and a soft pleasure dom! I’m always scared I’m going to screw it up with my kinks or my said *** will get the best of me and limit what I can do.