Submission in day to day life

[welshslaveboy]

Got me thinking the other day, as a submissive, I've realised that day to day life throws up little events that are sort of like, mini turn dom sessions for me, but without any of the physical elements. Events that to anyone without kinks would just pass by without a moments thought. So, what i'm talking about, is in work for instance, i was told off for doing something incorrectly the other day. Nothing at all kinky about it on the surface, but being told off by my boss defintely set some endorphins off. Even if the telling off was for something entirely non-kinky! Anyone have this, real life events which should really not be kinky or a turn-on, but somehow are?

[Deleted Member]

Yes all the time I always thought it was my anxieties playing up but maybe it's just that my endorphins responding 🤔

[Ha****]

I’m a flirt and my humor is rooted in sarcasm. Never shy away from making someone or myself blush, but I have to be careful when certain terms of endearment are thrown around 😌 especially terms I reserve for those I’m in a dynamic with

[ey****]

I feel, mind - there are situations like this which happen but you have to manage carefully

So like if you do got any form of buzz or arousal being told off by boss (or in telling staff off) it's important not to then deliberately find ways to be told off (or to look for ways to tell others off) 

 

But yeah, an ex girlfriend once scolded me and then noticed it got me really hard, and that was the last time we fucked

[GreyHog]

  8 hours ago, HappyFatLady said:

I’m a flirt and my humor is rooted in sarcasm. Never shy away from making someone or myself blush, but I have to be careful when certain terms of endearment are thrown around 😌 especially terms I reserve for those I’m in a dynamic with

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Yes, be careful.... sweetness.

[fr****]

Yes, every now and then, and I don’t ever want it to, but it does happen. I tread very carefully around things in life to avoid it, and play poker to save myself from the whole thing when it does happen. Like nothing ever happened. Because I feel it’s extremely inappropriate. Even more so at work. It’s not a game I want to play.

[welshslaveboy]

  On 3/7/2025 at 11:12 AM, renfrewshire32158 said:

Yes all the time I always thought it was my anxieties playing up but maybe it's just that my endorphins responding 🤔

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Hahaha yeah, defo the endorphins!  

[Deleted Member]

Thank you @welshslaveboy

[NoiKo]

That’s an interesting perspective—how everyday situations can unexpectedly trigger submissive feelings, even in non-kinky contexts. It makes sense that certain power dynamics, like being corrected or given firm instructions, can ***ly tap into that mindset. It’s not necessarily about the act itself but the emotional and psychological response it evokes.

Many people experience this in different ways—whether it’s a strict teacher, a demanding boss, or even just being told what to do in a firm yet authoritative way. It’s fascinating how real-life situations can mirror aspects of D/s dynamics without any actual intent behind them.

For those who enjoy exploring these psychological aspects of submission and power dynamics, sexobello* has discussions where people share their experiences and thoughts on these subtle, everyday triggers. Always intriguing to hear how different people perceive and experience power shifts in daily life!

Edited March 9 by FETMOD-TF
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