Sadism 4.0

[Be****]

There are as many motivations for the need as there are masochists.
Do they enjoy masochism , maybe 75% , But do they need to enjoy it?
Not really ,

Actually they don't. But they do have to NEED it.

There comes a point where even the most ardent masochists usually don't "enjoy" the *** and suffering while it's happening , head spaces that can only be accessed a limited number of ways and that type of heavy play is one of them. One of the ways to find grateful fulfillment is playing in those spaces. Pushing your partners beyond their comfort zone. Sometimes well beyond.
So enjoyment is kind of a funny word. The enjoyment usually comes afterwards. Sometimes moments later. Sometimes hours later. Sometimes days. And sometimes it's even weeks or months. It all very much depends on my partner and the particular activities and the nature of the scene. Quite variations…..

The need can come from many different places. It can be a response to personal ***. It can be a need to please. It can be the personal satisfaction of learning about their inner strength. It can be the catharsis. It can be the connection formed between two souls and the most intense moments of raw naked energy.

However, Sadism can manifest in many ways, and in real life it’s often more subtle. Many Sadists derive pleasure from the control they wield over their willing play partners, often revelling in the psychological impact of play as well as (or instead of) physical ***. Whatever their brand of sadism, there’s space to exist within BDSM , to provide *** and then give the reassurance afterwards that a masochist still like you, that they appreciate you for letting them be our entertainment. Just to adore the happiness you find in allowing your sadism out to play, a real masochist will be happy to give it to you.
Sadists come in all flavours, and some people will never see that side of them until they’ve earned the trust that goes with it. For us who have put so much work into accepting their darkness and share it with those of us who adore every side of them. Whether masochists who enjoy the various types of *** or the submissive who revels in enduring for their sadist’s pleasure.

Beast.