What sex positions make you cum?

[StormyBlueEyes]

To answer your question (and this is indeed after or with other sexual stimulation) the anvil position

[StormyBlueEyes]

Ps: I’ve also found a type of cowgirl where the girl is leaning forward and the guy is fucking her from underneath while pushing her hips back and down to be intensely pleasurable, as well as the crab sex and corkscrew positions (they were with fairly intense thrusting and had stimulation before hand).
Hahaha I had to look up what these positions were called)

[ki****]

👏 👏👏 to OP for acknowledging this! I’m fortunate that I can but I know many can’t. I know from my younger days many women “fake it” to please their partners what baffles me!
I can in any position but my faves have to be doggy, cowgirl but getting fucked from underneath or reverse cowgirl riding it slow

[ki****]

The dudes answering this question is hilarious to me. Like… yes, we know YOU can cum from fucking a rotten watermelon in an Arby’s parking lot if need be… That’s not the question being asked here.

[Th****]

I've never been able to cum from sex. Don't know why. Guess I've always been too nervous and I always get distracted. Don't know if any other dude has had this problem

[Hedonist74]

I recommend reading 'come as you are' by Emily Nagoski. Figure out what yours and the OP's sexual accelerator and Sexual brakes are.

[Th****]

I have never cum from sex. Only foreplay.

I see foreplay as me cumming. And sex is when the guy gets to cum.

[Th****]

  1 hour ago, kilgore-trout said:

The dudes answering this question is hilarious to me. Like… yes, we know YOU can cum from fucking a rotten watermelon in an Arby’s parking lot if need be… That’s not the question being asked here.

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Lol yeah. Men are able to cum from anything. Not everything is about men. That's not the issue here 🤣

[do****]

69

[Bi****]

  4 hours ago, StormyBlueEyes said:

To answer your question (and this is indeed after or with other sexual stimulation) the anvil position

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That's the one that has worked the best for me too.

[se****]

I really like being rode hard and getting my big dick sucked

[TimtheMerciless]

  3 hours ago, TheBackwardsMan said:

I've never been able to cum from sex. Don't know why. Guess I've always been too nervous and I always get distracted. Don't know if any other dude has had this problem

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Everybody is different. But you may find that what works for you changes over time as you become more able to find ways to enjoy your sexuality in ways that work for you . 

 

Sex is not about meeting any kind of other persons standard (except a partner) . It's for you and expression of you. 

[Th****]

  19 minutes ago, TimtheMerciless said:

Everybody is different. But you may find that what works for you changes over time as you become more able to find ways to enjoy your sexuality in ways that work for you . 

 

Sex is not about meeting any kind of other persons standard (except a partner) . It's for you and expression of you. 

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Well that's my problem, I'm too worried about what the other person feels that I forget that I'm supposed to be enjoying it as well. I do enjoy it but not to maximum level that I could.

[pr****]

It's going to sound really weird for a guy I actually do this to masturbate because I haven't had sex in a while apparently I'm not a whore but I'll lay on my back put my legs in the air spread them as wide as they can and jerk off can't wait to try it when I get my back door toy for stimulation

[zo****]

Spooning, missionary and sitting in frog position ..

[12****]

Missionary, anvil, spoon, Doggie, Chibi... maybe it is not the Position, it's the man and how good you vibe together ;)

[zo****]

It’s people like you who make it sound , feel better and help us the sensuous enthusiasts to enhance the “Vibe” .. @123neudevot456 🙌 💯💝💕 ♎️ . I agree with you ! 💕hugs xx

[TimtheMerciless]

  12 hours ago, TheBackwardsMan said:

Well that's my problem, I'm too worried about what the other person feels that I forget that I'm supposed to be enjoying it as well. I do enjoy it but not to maximum level that I could.

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I have found dating coaches like fir example, Kezia Noble help build confidence. Once you can get confident your sense of play emerges. Or your sense of spontaneity emerges. 

I don't think this ever stops - there are moments in sex when we are acting a role trying to "act sexy" , and moments when it's completely natural . It just comes and goes.  

That's ok it's part of the process. It doesn't have to be perfect all the time. 

 

Life didn't have to be exactly like the movies to do be pretty amazing. 

 

So i'd say don't worry if you are not completely spontaneous the whole time.  Just let yourself gradually develop and appreciate the present , despite it's imperfections.

 

 

[TimtheMerciless]

  Just now, TimtheMerciless said:

I have found dating coaches like fir example, Kezia Noble help build confidence. Once you can get confident your sense of play emerges. Or your sense of spontaneity emerges. 

I don't think this ever stops - there are moments in sex when we are acting a role trying to "act sexy" , and moments when it's completely natural . It just comes and goes.  

That's ok it's part of the process. It doesn't have to be perfect all the time. 

 

Life didn't have to be exactly like the movies to do be pretty amazing. 

 

So i'd say don't worry if you are not completely spontaneous the whole time.  Just let yourself gradually develop and appreciate the present , despite it's imperfections.

 

I'm no expert - just another amateur : like most people!

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[Ru****]

Good ol doggy

[Ru****]

  19 hours ago, kilgore-trout said:

The dudes answering this question is hilarious to me. Like… yes, we know YOU can cum from fucking a rotten watermelon in an Arby’s parking lot if need be… That’s not the question being asked here.

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I don't see the OP specifying any gender. There couldn't be men with that issue?

[Cl****]

Sure I'll come play. I like doggie. With one hand in the small of her back pressing down while the other hand pulling her hair back

[Al****]

Squirters love cowgirl

[Ke****]

Guaranteed for me, regardless of dick size, is on my front, legs together, like a pencil, and being fucked in my pussy from behind. Something about it tickles my insides in just the right way. My favourite position is butterfly, cause I do like it really very deep.

[Cu****]

Fucked furiously doggy style