A CMNF outdoor play ideas

[lo****]

Hello, kinksters.

I have a FWB who is into feminism and CMNF kinks. She is not a classical sub: She likes soft domination that does not harm her ability to control (no deprivation, no ***, no movement restrictions etc). A good example is walking naked with a leash or lying on the ground with a slight pressure of my boot on her butt or back. So I always have to be on the edge between being dominative, and not taking control.

Her main kink is to be fully naked outside. The only limit is she doesn't want to be arrested. She can easily walk back into the shop around the corner, walk pretty far away from home, and go to the countryside with a car without any clothes. I already gave her a naked ride on my motorbike, went to the public beach, and even dined in a pub. I am almost out of ideas now and can not find a new challenge for her.

Asking the community to help with brainstorming.

[lo****]

Any ideas for nacked outdoor play?

[Ma****]

Why dont you ask her, for 3 ideas. And you chose which one?

Seems youve already come up with a lot.

[ge****]

Honestly I'm amazed that both of you haven't been arrested and/or asked to leave places if you've truly done all of those things in public places where "clothed" is the norm.
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And being honest if you've not been there's the moral question around playing out your kink in front of non-consenting others to consider.
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I'd suggest perhaps looking on FetLife for CMNF events where you can practice your kink in the safety of knowing it will be ok - there's one at Liberty Elite in June for example and they have an outdoor area too.

[lo****]

She is quite bratty and she challenges me to find a new challenge for her. Also, she does not appreciate events or communities since she does not get excited when there are consenting people around. I feel like she challenges the society. We did not get arrested basically because she lives in another country outside europe and we play there.

[ge****]

In which case I'd question if it's ok to involve non-consenting people (including possibly *** which is entirely feasible in public spaces) in her kink - especially given it involves her being paraded on a leash and made to lie on the ground with your boot on her back - both of which make it clear it's a kink being played out.

[lo****]

I understand what you mean, and my answer is that whatever you do, there are always someone around who is unhappy. From my perspective our public games much more innocent than pride parades.

[ge****]

Yes, but whilst I understand the "thrill" of your kink, it once again comes back to one of the watch words of kink, which is "consent" and pushing your kink on others who may not wish to see it.
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Whereas Pride Parades are both organised with local authorities and the like, are well advertised and let's be honest are largely no more than a carnival to promote a very valid cause and don't seek to offend either wittingly or unwittingly - people have a choice whether to attend them or not - your kink however does none of that.

[CopperKnob]

  3 hours ago, londonbassman said:

She is quite bratty and she challenges me to find a new challenge for her. Also, she does not appreciate events or communities since she does not get excited when there are consenting people around. I feel like she challenges the society. We did not get arrested basically because she lives in another country outside europe and we play there.

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Then, if people are actively seeking intimacy/nudity with non consenting individuals, frankly, they deserve to be arrested and have to deal with the consequences of that arrest.
Its no different than if I went to Dubai and didn't respect their views on clothing, which I view as restrictive.

[CopperKnob]

  4 hours ago, londonbassman said:

I understand what you mean, and my answer is that whatever you do, there are always someone around who is unhappy. From my perspective our public games much more innocent than pride parades.

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I missed this, in what way are Pride parades not innocent? Genuine question, I've never been to one.

[Ar****]

  52 minutes ago, CopperKnob said:

I missed this, in what way are Pride parades not innocent? Genuine question, I've never been to one.

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The ones I've been to have been respectful

[Se****]

  On 3/17/2025 at 1:08 PM, londonbassman said:

Hello, kinksters.

I have a FWB who is into feminism and CMNF kinks. She is not a classical sub: She likes soft domination that does not harm her ability to control (no deprivation, no ***, no movement restrictions etc). A good example is walking naked with a leash or lying on the ground with a slight pressure of my boot on her butt or back. So I always have to be on the edge between being dominative, and not taking control.

Her main kink is to be fully naked outside. The only limit is she doesn't want to be arrested. She can easily walk back into the shop around the corner, walk pretty far away from home, and go to the countryside with a car without any clothes. I already gave her a naked ride on my motorbike, went to the public beach, and even dined in a pub. I am almost out of ideas now and can not find a new challenge for her.

Asking the community to help with brainstorming.

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I say this from a place of peace and love. This is either a complete fiction and none of these things have happened (inclusive of your subsequent comments) or you and your partner a delusional and dangerous and have no care to the trauma you may invoke of others. The ONLY redeeming thing I can say about this is that I pray I’ve misunderstood you and these things have all occurred in areas/places specifically designed for naked/nudist/exhibitionist behaviour.

I don’t consider either of you lucky to have not been arrested I consider the general public unlucky that you have not been and honestly I do not care which country that occurs in.

 How would you feel if your parents, ***, friends, anyone you truly care about was exposed to what you are both doing? How would you deal with the level of distress it can and does cause?

 To say, effectively, that they don’t “get off” attending CONSENSUAL CMNF events honestly screams entitlement. Tough luck frankly, consent is not solely about the people DIRECTLY involved it is also about those indirectly involved and being mindful of societal norms.

 Posts like this really scare me because the temptation is there for other people to think this kind of behaviour is normal, ok and consensual and frankly it isn’t. It is one (of many) ridiculously stupid things that gives kink/kinky people a bad name to non kink persons.

 Take control of this situation, preferably educate both of yourselves but as a minimum stop it from happening/stop being part of the problem.

 If, as I said at the beginning I have misunderstood you in any way and everything you have mentioned has happened in a consensual setting then I sincerely apologise for getting so grumpy about this topic.