Never had sex 🙈

[AnimeBlonde23]

I mean being a virgin isn't that strange , the thing that shows as strange from reading your comments is you say women on dates seem "freaked out" I would maybe look into what you are saying / doing on these dates to cause women to be freaked out (i.e. are you over sharing things they aren't comfortable with, are you trying to move to fast into intimacy etc)

If you can contact any of these women afterwards it may be worth asking how they thought the date went - as someone has said above not everyone will respond and that is completely fair and their choice.

[Th****]

  43 minutes ago, Australopiteco said:

Your statement is wrong and commonly misconceived…
If they are over 18 they are adults: it imply that is perfectly normal to hook up or be wanting to hook up with them..
There is absolutely nothing wrong or creepy with it

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If it's a youth group, then they usually aren't over 18. He never mentioned if he ran the youth groups or was participant 

[Au****]

  35 minutes ago, AnimeBlonde23 said:

I mean being a virgin isn't that strange , the thing that shows as strange from reading your comments is you say women on dates seem "freaked out" I would maybe look into what you are saying / doing on these dates to cause women to be freaked out (i.e. are you over sharing things they aren't comfortable with, are you trying to move to fast into intimacy etc)

If you can contact any of these women afterwards it may be worth asking how they thought the date went - as someone has said above not everyone will respond and that is completely fair and their choice.

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Almost impossible to have a feedback.. It would be great though but you usually are left alone in the mistery 🙀
That is why I was suggesting to call himself out of this. It won’t definitely help him to understand nor help his self esteem at all..

[Ha****]

@basingstoke671024 Nothing is wrong with you!

[AnimeBlonde23]

  29 minutes ago, Australopiteco said:

Almost impossible to have a feedback.. It would be great though but you usually are left alone in the mistery 🙀
That is why I was suggesting to call himself out of this. It won’t definitely help him to understand nor help his self esteem at all..

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I'm not sure I understand what you are getting at but I'm not saying anything nasty about the man perhaps he is doing something subconsciously and it worth asking if it could make his life easier in the future.

I have been on dates with gentlemen that thought it went really well but they actually made me extremely uncomfortable - when asked after 9/10 I would explain if asked as long as I wasn't scared of the person or they did something that outlandish I blocked them outright

[ba****]

@MisguidedMel Every time I've got "friendly with women" these are women whom I've met in everyday life and not from dating apps, they have always turned me down when I've asked of their interested in going out. I have made the first moves and always been rejected

[Th****]

  3 minutes ago, basingstoke671024 said:

MisguidedMel Every time I've got "friendly with women" these are women whom I've met in everyday life and not from dating apps, they have always turned me down when I've asked of their interested in going out. I have made the first moves and always been rejected

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Did you first ask those women if they are even looking to date anyone? Because most women aren't 

[ba****]

@TheMacabreBrat I've dated a lot of women from online dating and they have never wanted a second date with me. The women have been single and a lot of then looking too actively date. A woman has never shown any interest in bring physical with me either, at a party or an event etc

[ba****]

@AnimeBlonde23, I guess my body language and demina is very poor. I must give off a bad aura/vibes

[he****]

Dang dude im sorry to hear that, you'll find the one who is looking for you when you stop searching buddy

[AnimeBlonde23]

  41 minutes ago, TheMacabreBrat said:

Did you first ask those women if they are even looking to date anyone? Because most women aren't 

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Yep like this lovely person has said something seems not right , it's either who you're approaching or how ......

[AnimeBlonde23]

  35 minutes ago, basingstoke671024 said:

AnimeBlonde, I guess my body language and demina is very poor. I must give off a bad aura/vibes

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I mean I'd be intrigued to ask one of the women as your saying this is the general ongoing trend of responses you are getting

[he****]

I believe you might be searching in the wrong places. A great approach would be to find someone who shares your values, and considering relatives for your arranged dates could also be a good idea. From your comments, it seems you might not be fully in tune with the emotional side of things. I encourage you to explore and learn more about women through reading and listening to various resources. Generally, it looks like you're at a pivotal point in your journey. Additionally, as blonde mentioned, seeking feedback from women is important; they appreciate being heard. Embrace romance and let your imagination soar—movies can inspire you to be funny and classy. Remember to embody the qualities of a gentleman, as women are less likely to approach based solely on a profile picture. Psychologically, it’s viewed that, within traditional communities, women are drawn to men who possess three key attributes: financial stability, affection, and sexual capabilities. If you’re lacking in two of these areas, it might be challenging to connect. Times have changed, and expectations have risen since many women now have their own financial stability, so it's essential to strive for more.

[cl****]

Alot of people are extreamly turned on about ur virginity. Just don't give in to say ur not a virgin. Make sure when it happens its on ur terms, with someone u want to be in that forever memory. Remember, you only habe sex for the 1st time once, cant take it back, cant change it, and it's only gonna feel the waynit does that 1st time. Many peoples 1st time was awful. Mine was in back ofnbroien down station wagon, and the dude dint even know my name. So pride urself as a virgin, and use it to ur advantage to get the chick u want. BUT DON'T GET PUSSY WHIPPED. lol. 🤣🤣🤣 Just kidding. Good luck and god s***d on ur journey. You're so hansome, by the way.

[CopperKnob]

  6 hours ago, basingstoke671024 said:

gemini_man, I've had a lot of connections and interactions with women in my life but they have never showed an interest in me. Ive been online dating for years. If you read my other comments on here then it will explain more. I'm more using this app as an experiment to see if any women are actually even interested in meeting me based on my profile photo and then going on from there because i dont think women are physically attracted to me based on my physical appearance.

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Is this where you're going 'wrong'? I'm not sure that women are having sex with others solely based on physical appearance....

[CopperKnob]

  2 hours ago, Australopiteco said:

Almost impossible to have a feedback.. It would be great though but you usually are left alone in the mistery 🙀
That is why I was suggesting to call himself out of this. It won’t definitely help him to understand nor help his self esteem at all..

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I'm struggling with the spelling here, are you "left alone in misery" or "left alone in mystery." Because if it's the former, why is being not having sex necessarily a miserable thing and, if it's the latter, there's no real reason for it to be a mystery. Of it is, I'd suggest some reflection.

[ey****]

  6 hours ago, basingstoke671024 said:

I think women are generally nervous of me and feel uncomfortable being in my presence and feel on edge around me and can't relax with me. This is half the problem.

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this could be something to work on

[ey****]

  6 hours ago, basingstoke671024 said:

I'm more using this app as an experiment to see if any women are actually even interested in meeting me based on my profile photo

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I can tell you this is likely NO - buuuuuuuut - not because of anything wrong with you or your picture

but

especially in kink, folk want more than appearances 

[Au****]

  11 minutes ago, CopperKnob said:

I'm struggling with the spelling here, are you "left alone in misery" or "left alone in mystery." Because if it's the former, why is being not having sex necessarily a miserable thing and, if it's the latter, there's no real reason for it to be a mystery. Of it is, I'd suggest some reflection.

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It was mystery, my bad.. But saying misery it would also be appropriate, cause being unable to get sex it make you feel miserable, there isn’t another way around it..

No reflection needed.

We should ask the owner of the post, how he feels about it. In his shoes I couldn’t know how I’d feel but I guess Id be desperate at least..

[CopperKnob]

  3 minutes ago, Australopiteco said:

It was mystery, my bad.. But saying misery it would also be appropriate, cause being unable to get sex it make you feel miserable, there isn’t another way around it..

No reflection needed.

We should ask the owner of the post, how he feels about it. In his shoes I couldn’t know how I’d feel but I guess Id be desperate at least..

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Does it? Perhaps that's the reflection point for people as to why it's so important/such value is attached to it that it would evoke such an emotional response.
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Also, to be clear, I wasn't attributing emotions to the OP.

[ar****]

  2 hours ago, basingstoke671024 said:

AnimeBlonde, I guess my body language and demina is very poor. I must give off a bad aura/vibes

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Are you in touch with your body and emotions, and can you show them accurately in your body language? Would you have any experience with ecstatic dance or Tantric Dating? Maybe those workshops can help you offset your vibes in a positive way.

[Au****]

  35 minutes ago, CopperKnob said:

Does it? Perhaps that's the reflection point for people as to why it's so important/such value is attached to it that it would evoke such an emotional response.
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Also, to be clear, I wasn't attributing emotions to the OP.

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What’s the op?

[ba****]

AnnieBlonde, I have actually asked the women after the dates and they just tell me that there was no romantic connection or chemistry. Then again I have to ask myself the question- why would a woman want me when she has all the men in the world to choose from?

[ba****]

I can't understand why people are so surprised when I told them at I've never been physical with a woman, I mean why would a woman want me anyway?

[CopperKnob]

  13 minutes ago, Australopiteco said:

What’s the op?

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