Craving to be desired

[lo****]

Do onto him as he does to you

[No****]

I dont think he wants you he wants something new. Unfortunately men get bored thats why theyre so disloyal. Im sorry

[No****]

I like that… get him back . Do the same shit to him

[de****]

You address it directly...you ask why...either way you have decisions to arrive at

[Windwolf]

  19 hours ago, Nonnahs said:

I dont think he wants you he wants something new. Unfortunately men get bored thats why theyre so disloyal. Im sorry

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In defense of some men, we don't all get bored. I was married to my wife for 41 years and was never for a single day bored.
I actually could hardly wait to get home from work to see what kind of new excitement she had in store for us.
She was a natural submissive and her submission was pure and sweet.

Personally ,I believe that communication is the very thing that keeps boredom away. All the time communication, not just when there is a problem.

I'm also not sure that,do to others as they do to you is the answer. There's a saying that revenge is a dish best served cold. Self respect is more valuable than sinking to someone else's level.


I don't think that in most cases love doesn't die. It's more likely that it was less than love to start with.

My advice is simple, ask directly why the person is not interested in sharing in obvious desires. Maybe, it's just time to find someone that deserves what is offered and will accept and respect the offering.

[Ho****]

Act them out suggest them to him

[Yo****]

  On 3/21/2025 at 2:27 PM, FetMyLife said:

It’s sometimes really awkward to open up about your kinks to your partner especially if you’re a little bit embarrassed by them or ashamed of them. I imagine it’s from a *** of being judged, potentially upsetting or disgusting your partner and possibly causing them to think about you differently and go off you. It’s much easier to open up to absolute strangers online. They can’t “fall out of love with you” if they think your kink is a bit weird and because you don’t really care that much about their opinion of you (because you don’t love them or *** losing them) it’s easy to really open up, even about stuff that you think is a bit weird or extreme. I often imagine a couple that both have kinks that they don’t share with each other but share to a stranger online (both using fake pics as they’re married!) the person they chat to online ‘totally gets them’ they share the same kink and feel accepted. They share stuff they’d never share with their partner because he/she ‘just wouldn’t understand’ then one day they finally meet up and for the first time discover that it was their partner they were talking with the entire time! Then they finally trust that their partner won’t judge their taboo kink and the relationship becomes amazing! I was going to suggest you kinda make this happen by making a fake profile and approaching your partner anonymously. But it seems like (most of) the cards are already on the table for you both so maybe something more direct would be a better option. It could very well be that his kink has a little twist that he hasn’t shared with you as he’s embarrassed by it, if you have an idea what that twist might be and it’s something you like too then tell him its a thing that you like, it might surprise him. You don’t have to suggest that you think he’s into it, just tell him that you are and if it’s ok with him you’d like to do it. Of course I could be way off, he might like the idea of doing something but not with you, for example if he really want to dominate somebody aggressively, face slapping etc, he might not want to hurt you, there could be many factors. I hope whatever it is you find a solution, if it is something you’d enjoy too it could be a great step forward for your relationship. Good luck x

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This hits home for me. I was, and still am to a certain degree, in this position of being embarrassed opening up to my wife, and it took a long time for me to start to open up. Speaking to people online certainly helped my acceptance of myself but there’s a big difference between chatting to strangers online and actually taking in person to your partner.