First time switching

March 22

I’m interested in knowing how everyone’s first switch went! Was it everything you wanted and more? Or was it not really cut out to what you thought it would be?

March 23

Mine was pretty simple -

I had planned a surprise for my girlfriend (at the time) so when she texted me that she was on her way home, I knew I had about 15 to 20 minutes to prepare myself.

I tied myself naked to the bed with my hands and legs tied above my head, blindfolded, to let her find me like that when she got home. I was so nervous about the whole thing, not giving her any warning. We had never even talked about the idea of her taking control. I squirmed repeatedly in my ropes checking that everything was as tight as I could make it and that I would be in position for her when she got home. The wait seemed to take forever as my anticipation kept rising in my darkness.

When I finally heard the garage door open, my heart started to pound in my chest. I’m sure she knew something was up because I didn’t greet her at the door like normal but she stayed quiet. I waited for her to come into the room. My anticipation building.

She opened the door to our room and had to have seen me but she didn’t say anything. She left me there while she went into the kitchen. I was going crazy wondering if she was ok with this or if she was upset. She took her time putting things away and getting herself a drink, allowing me to continue to wonder.

Eventually she came back into the room apparently willing to go along with it. She said we needed to make this quick because she had plans with her boyfriend (me) in an obvious attempt to make me feel humiliated.

Then she got into the bed and immediately started to suck my dick. I love oral (giving even more than I love receiving), but I usually have a difficult time cumming from it. This time however, I was so worked up by the entire experience and her willing to play along that it didn’t take me long to explode in her mouth.

It was so fucking hot. That’s really when I discovered I was a switch and that I actually lean sub. I tried to get her to play as often as possible but it was pretty clear that although she humored me sometimes, she just wasn’t that much into it.

That was years ago and I haven’t found anyone willing to delve into that lifestyle since, but I’m hoping to find someone on here that is open to exploring their kinky desires.

March 23

you know - the first time switching I didn't really think about it.

I was probably around 19/20 and it was with a partner at the time and we'd decided to buy a couple of toys and restraints and we just experimented with them with each other and found there were elements we both enjoyed.

March 24

Yesterday at 07:37 AM, eyemblacksheep said:

you know - the first time switching I didn't really think about it.

I was probably around 19/20 and it was with a partner at the time and we'd decided to buy a couple of toys and restraints and we just experimented with them with each other and found there were elements we both enjoyed.

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I have always been the dominate leading person with regard to having sex or any kind of role play in the bedroom, my curiosity is really challenging me to find someone who can *** me into submission and hold me at a constant disadvantage for 12 or 24 hours straight so that I may experience how it feels to totally lose control , to not have any say so about anything being done to me or anything I would be made to do,
For me I would need to find a strong commanding female to make my fantasy become a reality, I’ll keep ya’ll posted on how this goes and conclusions