Taking the kink out for a date - easing into exhibitionism

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To Dom’s and sub’s alike ,

my sub and I are very interested in moments , clips if you will of scenes that would take place when out together in public. 

Nothing too explicit to start with and nothing too close to shaming or ***.

I am interested to hear peoples suggestions, ideas and experiences on this topic as a starting point for some of my own ideas moving forward.

( we have a night out coming up ).

This thread to Our kink is new but also not completely shy to it ( although I do have to think about not going to crazy incase I’m recognised from my work etc )

Perhaps a good starting point would be to share with you all the scenario I used in discussion out of play with my sub to see what her feelings would be , as a marker trying to gauge her interest ;

so.....

we are at the bar , or a high table near the bar ... people milling around socialiszing fairly busy but not busy enough for us to go unnoticed...maybe we are even sharing the table .

i lean in for what seems like a normal kiss , but while kissing take a had full of her hair and pull her head back so chin is up... after kissing and biting her neck I whisper in her ear to stick out her bum.. she does ( now likely having drawn some attention to us ) - I give her one hard spank that makes her jump....

then I go to the bar / toilet / wherever ...

For a moment she is without me 

then I return.

 

 

Nothing set I stone here ***ps it was exploring the idea but both very much up for the above 😃

thoughts / experiences / ideas ? 

G

[Ka****]

Make her waer vib nickers the ones the you have remote for .

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I think this brings some complexity..... this topic was broached in discussion at BBB this month. Mainly the issue of consent for others who are exposed to your actions. As a pillar/ cornerstone all those engaged in a scene inc observers need to be consensual. 

Its very likely those observing this in a vanilla bar would misunderstand and this may lead to conflict/ confusion/ confrontation. 

Others may have a different view.....

 

...I am very interested in exhibitionism so very keen to hear others thoughts on this

Edited November 29, 2017 by Deleted Member

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  24 minutes ago, Firewitch said:

I think this brings some complexity..... this topic was broached in discussion at BBB this month. Mainly the issue of consent for others who are exposed to your actions. As a pillar/ cornerstone all those engaged in a scene inc observers need to be consensual. 

Its very likely those observing this in a vanilla bar would misunderstand and this may lead to conflict/ confusion/ confrontation. 

Others may have a different view.....

 

...I am very interested in exhibitionism so very keen to hear others thoughts on this

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VERY good point ! I’ll keep that in mind and wait to read more responses before coming back to you 

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Some years ago, I took my ex girlfriend out for the evening. She wore a coat and a pair of boots. Nothing else. She was nervous at first, quite naturally, but quickly became highly excited by her situation. As did I.

We walked down to the city centre, where the streets became steadily busier and her excitement rose as her *** of exposure increased. After a while we stopped at a pub and I suggested a quiet drink. At first she refused, but when I made it clear I was going in anyway, she followed nervously behind. We stood together at the bar for half an hour or so and when she'd relaxed a little, she told me she was the most turned on she had ever been. Her hands were quivering with sexual excitement. No one in the bar seemed to notice either her attire, or the state she was in.

Upon our return home, she was ripping her coat off almost before we stepped through the door and our lovemaking was almost *** in its intensity. A very worthwhile exercise.

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  5 hours ago, Kat669 said:

Make her waer vib nickers the ones the you have remote for .

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What a turn on that would be. Delicious!!!

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Well pretty obvious one but still highly arousing for both parties.. Make her go and take he panties off in the bathroom and hand them to you at the bar discreetly.. Preferably wearing a tight or short skirt.. It's a huge kick to know she is knicker less because they are now in your pocket 

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And oh yeah this is even hotter if you make her do it work in the middle of the afternoon when your not even there and she still has to concentrate on what she's doing.. Now pantie less