What is this place?

March 29

What is this place? A sex app? That
is what I hear every time I object
to your unsolicited fantasies in my inbox.
Don't you know where we are? That
is what this place is, lady. It's for fucking.
Is it? Is it just kinky T*nder, hunting
for hook ups where you can pull her hair
and spit in her face? Did we *** away
our morals and give up our knickers
when we became subs, brats, slaves
and switches? I don't think so. To me,
the fact that I let you bind me, hurt me,
degrade me means I need to know you
more, not less. I need to be sure that
your word is your word.
I need to know how you'll react when
you're angry. Frustrated.
I need to know that if I say no. Stop.
Pineapple… that you will stop.
And here is the secret that I think
you are missing.
If you want me to be your slut, your whore,
to crawl or cry or beg or lick your cum
from the floor, you first need to show me
that you value me. That I matter. So
your first words to me
should be respectful. Kind. Interest me.
Softly, softly catchy sub.

March 30

Char, please say it louder 💙

March 30

Truth. 💜

March 30

I pray they read this because it's really wild in this app.

March 30

very well said 👏

March 30

100% It’s exhausting!! I had to take my pics down just to get a break from it! It’s sad!

March 30

Men need more training in understanding consent in general…. It definitely takes a minute for us to understand for some reason, but this post is good educational content. This is a good psa for everyone to see when starting on this app

March 30

A lot of bots and scammers too lol

March 30

Stay alert and report what you see

March 30

Specially if it’s suspicious and ask you to get out of the platform IM

March 30

What did u think the app was?

March 30

What I hear instead of 'what is this, a sex app?' is, "I have no respect nor will I display any decency for those with whom I have sex, and when challenged due to my shitty point of view and behavior, I will even defend it by proving that I'm not intelligent enough my behavior to even register as inappropriate "

Do y'all get all that from a few idiotic words or is it just me???

March 30

It is an app for kink minded individuals to connect. There may be sex involved eventually but not necessarily.
If that is the outlook of those showing up in your inbox.
They are not truly kink individuals. They are posers that feel that “kink” means you just give sex as and when told to.
Report and block them as they do not belong here. As a true Kink individual is first and foremost respectful and is very concerned about a partner or potential partners safety, comfort, and total well being.
Sex may or may not be part of the dynamic

March 30

Some men, I believe, tend to engage in that manner either largely out of desperation or assumptions. I haven't seen nor experienced this from women, even if they are being dominant. In most cases those individual more than likely have forgotten their basic manners. One thing I know for certain and have always practiced is this lifestyle, is to treat a woman or couples with dignity and respect first. There are ways on how to approach people. Just because we all engage in various kinks/fetishes, we all should give and receive respect. Once I have established connections with those I meet, then I will ask what type and level of treatment (i.e. degrade, dominating, brat tamer, etc.) they want. I mean you gotta cover the basics first instead of jumping in and being all belligerent.

March 30

I agree. I sent out the wrong message when I started. I caught on quickly. I have respected women in my entire life. I'm older than dirt so it's been a long time. I have stepped between a man and a woman when needed.
Question? How the hell are we supposed to start up a chat? I have tried short, long, and compliments. We don't have much to go on if the profile is not filled in.
Any ideas from anyone.

March 30

Unfortunately.. just like any other dating app. People went here just for hookups and most just want to try a ‘freaky’ sex. Full of people who arent actually kinky per se. Just bunch and bunch of horndogs who doesnt know how to treat other human with respects. And they thought they could get away with it and justified it just bcs theyre on a ‘kink’ app. Exhausting.

March 30

Exhausting is weeding through the woman scammers.

March 30

The women scammers is absolutely insane and it's on every single app I've tried

March 30

Well put.

March 30

Any Dom would be lucky to have such a good girl like yourself

March 30

Beautifully put, Charmander 💕

March 30

Thank you for this!

March 30

Facts! And yet here we are amongst many creepy fellas who dont understand they arent doms and theyre just creepy. A dominant is much more than 95% of these guys can do