Couple swapping

April 2

Do you enjoy swinger lifestyles and why ?

April 3

I was a part of the swing lifestyle in the early 2000s while I was living in Minnesota. I enjoyed it up until I encountered a lot of backstabbing and being disrespected so I left and never looked back because I'm also a part of the kink community and have been since 2001. There were certain parts of being in the swing lifestyle that I really did enjoy and if I could form a good solid FWB relationship with the right woman I would be very happy.
And a couple swapping yeah is good when you were part of a couple but when you were a single male it's kind of hard to do.

April 3

I did she didn’t and she kept it to herself and made silent deals in her head now she’s gone

Don’t regret it but wish people would be honest and speak their mind that’s 10years down the drain

April 3

Yes been in it since 2002. I like watching my partner being pleased.

April 3

Yes but when you mix the two lifestyles , now that is perfection 🥰🥰

I have a few people I meet solo, one is very much more kink related and the other isn’t and a few couples we meet together . The group chats , the lead ups to it . When you finally find ‘your people ‘ and can chat about anything and everything is amazing .

But this is also why I find this site so irritating , going from people being so respectful of you , your partner and dynamic to the absolute filth that people start off conversations on here . Truly blows my mind , like surely I am a woman first and foremost x

April 4

You first

April 4

Yesterday at 06:16 AM, london70403 said:

Yes but when you mix the two lifestyles , now that is perfection 🥰🥰

I have a few people I meet solo, one is very much more kink related and the other isn’t and a few couples we meet together . The group chats , the lead ups to it . When you finally find ‘your people ‘ and can chat about anything and everything is amazing .

But this is also why I find this site so irritating , going from people being so respectful of you , your partner and dynamic to the absolute filth that people start off conversations on here . Truly blows my mind , like surely I am a woman first and foremost x
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See love that part but some don’t like the start of hello how your day is going start up communication they just instantly pass you on by but then say they want or looking for a dom that pleases and enjoy the dynamic like that seems controversial to me or can I be wrong ?

April 5

I can’t say for the people who are actually looking for a dom as I wasn’t . For me I would say I’m very much a switch . But I needed that person who was going to dominate me in the bedroom and make me forget about normal day to day life kids work etc but also whilst still being able to have those conversations . My chat with my more dominate guy is hilarious one second he’s telling me what he will do to me the next I’m like one second school is on the phone 🤣

Yesterday someone messaged me on here saying Hi you dirty fuck pig and I was like absolutely not 🤣 it’s not a copy and paste job especially when most are trusting another person basically with their life .

Anyway I digress 🤣 and am waffling way too much 🤣

April 6

Hun I know your *** it's incomprehensible how many guys think talking to a sub in a disrespectful manner is being dominant first question the dom doesn't exist ever until he's first invited into the conversation with the sub second once the dom is invited by the sub the sub has to relinquish control over to who she's is slowly building the trust in to hand it all over to whom she's crowning to be her dominant *** allowing him to take her to the places she psychologically needs to be sexually.

April 6

Who is really in charge... yes people well the small three percent got this right the sub is in control until she's crowns her dom... So to the um lol "Doms" who think they can have someone put all their trust in you by your first line of conversation being um duh... hey slut I'm going two(yes I know it's supposed to be "to") it's spelled wrong on purpose for illustration purposes, do dis dat cuz you a pig...lol stop I know you are smarter than that if you really want to think about it. That's all I've got for yah.. I know I sound like a bitch but I am really trying to help you out both doms and subs