My bf has second thoughts..

[ex****]

My bf was super into us trying cuckold while I was on the fence. Now that I start to talk to other men and wanting to meet he has second thoughts and wants us to stop being on this app.

Now how do I convince him to get into cuckolding again? Anyone thinks he can convince him?

[ch****]

Don't convince him to him about his concerns and what's made him change his mind. It'll only come between you if he's not fully into it

[ro****]

I see his concern... You're damn hot and he is scared some other guy might make you feel better than he can

[No****]

It isn’t for everyone. Please accept he doesn’t want it and leave it alone

[Br****]

He's afraid of you wanting someone else

[9f****]

Hey. It's depends. Give and take. Just let him know, that he can rail anyone and you would be willing to be cuck and he has to do the same thing. Getting f*cked in front of bf or husband that's nasty but it's fun.

[Th****]

Some fantasies are better in the imagination than in real life. He is allowed to change his mind. Nobody should have to do anything they don't want to

[mo****]

Hard to say. Some think they would like it. And can internalize it and make it seem like it’s what he wants…mostly due to the type of porn watched or a past event he saw or witnessed. But the truth is some of us me included could never see the one we truly love with another. Instead of it being kinky safe fun. It is now a traumatizing event. Hard to say without knowing him. But if you’re using me as an example I’ve thought about being cuck for a partner in the past. But just seeing her talk with other men felt very diminishing and unpleasant my whole body shut down and the relationship was never the same. I get very possessive my one person is supposed to be for me. So maybe have a deeper talk with him and lay everything out on the table there nothing more attractive and respectful then having those deep intimate conversations

[Puppy6411]

Should you not respect his reservations, at least for now?
Perhaps a "cold light of day " moment?

[tr****]

How long have y'all been together? Convincing isn't what he needs. Most men are wary of their lady being pounded out and being degraded. If ur looking to enjoy both being in a relationship and able to have your fun,try asking if he's down for an open relationship and set clear boundaries for both sides so you both get what you want. He might be feeling at a loss, so do what you can to take care of your man,and add if ur able to. If not, causing issues and trauma aren't worth either of your sanity

[Bu****]

Boundaries, consent, and communication... please reconsider with both person's feelings in mind before ....

[no****]

Agree with @chester846689. Tbh, when it comes to play with other people you always need to be transparent about every single thing. A 1:1 relationship is hard, adding more people to the mix can get r3ally bad reqlly fast. Talk to each other about your needs and see what happened. Good luck on whatever you two end up deciding. At the end of the day is what is good for you and your relationship.

[Je****]

I have served in cuckold relationship before. The dynamic is extremely difficult to maintain even when all parties agree and communicate well. Threesomes are the same way long term. It requires a lot of work.

[Sy****]

To be honest, if he's not comfortable with that, the best option would be to respect that. It's very easy to agree to something that sounds fun and exciting, like cuckolding, but it really isn't for everyone. The idea of watching the woman you love share an intimate act with another man can hit us men in a very primal way, the very thought of it can trigger a survival fight or flight response. A good relationship relies on trust, respect, and communication, and that is even more important while exploring kinks. Just be sure that you both are communicating your needs and mutually compromising to ensure you are both happy and comfortable. There are many other avenues you both could pursue that don't involve a third person. I wish you both the best of luck! Send me a DM if you have any questions.

[Pa****]

Sometimes things are more appealing IN THEORY, and then when the reality starts getting closer a person realizes that they like the IDEA better than the ACTUAL act.

Even if you COULD convince him, you shouldn’t. Kinks of any flavor with couples should be done only because BOTH parties are consenting and enthusiastic, never because one of them got “talked into it”.

If he’s uncomfortable, respect his feelings and find out what he IS comfortable with.

[mo****]

Hey its a really hard kink for a giy

He loves you. He feels strong snd masculine. Buy if he is like me

He wants to see her. Well. Yoi get it

My wife and i pkayed this wrll and enhoyed it

I said before. Get into charachter anf introduce herself to him


My wife. Basically. Walked in on me and mates she knew would go for it. Nude Sat in a chair. And performed
No touching incolved. But the guys were quick to lose all inhibitions

[Ki****]

... If it's not something he liked like he thought it might and it's something you won't be happy without then your concern isn't his fetish it's your lack of support and faithfulness to what you both feel comfortable with which is important. Just break up with him if you need to cuck and he doesn't feel confident about it anymore. Cucking is obvioisly the concern over his comfort so go cuck just don't stay with him and cause him *** with it go cuck all you want single

[Da****]

I think the best thing to do is to get off the app and respect that he's changed his mind. In a relationship, if one person wants something and the other doesn't, the "no" should always overpower the "yes." I would recommend having a rational discussion with him explaining your views on the matter and listening to his, as well (which I'm sure you've already done). Then, try to compromise and find some middle ground, setting clear boundaries. He may end up changing his mind. I just wouldn't keep pushing the issue and trying to convince him to do something he's not sure of. If he caves and reluctantly agrees and doesn't like it, it could cause a lot of damage to your relationship. I hope you two are able to come to terms that you can both agree on!

[Sc****]

It sounds like an exploring the kink he discovered he didn't like it and you discovered you did. That usually doesn't end up well discuss it with each other and figure out a way to move forward and maybe seek advice from a unbiased third party such as a licensed professional

[ri****]

Perhaps it is the cuckhold dynamic he doesn’t like, what if it was more of a hot wife scenario with more respect toward him?

[Hoadsta]

Fantasy V reality.

[Jo****]

This is the beginning of the end of you and your boyfriends relationship. You don't "get into" cuckolding.

[Bo****]

He liked the IDEA. Hates the reality of being cuckolded. Typical. It's like the guy who wants to open the relationship assuming he will get more women, but gets upset that his lady is getting more men.

[ex****]

I started watching porn with her about the situation. She saw me turned on and started to get into it. Eventually she wanted it for real

[Sa****]

There are things you can do to minimize his ***.. like setting up the cockhold session .. using blindfold and using restraints to keep a degree of distance between you and other men while he watches .. but that’s about it really.. there’s clearly hesitation because there’s insecurity .. straighten the security ..