Getting into bdsm

[Timtam509]

Hey! I've fantasized about being submissive for a while, and want to find a way to try out the bdsm scene to fins out whether it's for me.

I'm currently on an overseas trip and figure now would be the time to try something without worrying about consequences so much. What should I do to start? Should I try and find a meet up group in the country I'm in, or am I just better off with a paid dominatrix?

[Nikki_Hexy]

It deppends on how you mean by "submissive". Doms and subs come in all flavours really from the pet/owner play to more heavy sadism and masochism. If you go to google and searc for "BDSM test" and just have a look at all the questions for a more complete look on what your interests vaguely point to. Its not the most accurate thing in the world because everyone is unique however it will point you towards the right fetish groups and Fetish.com has an amazing community for every fetish i can think of for more specialised advice.