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Is it bad of me that all my life I have been dom yet I find myself being more and more sub I'm 59 now never felt this way before is it my age or the thought of a younger women controllng me advice please 

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People evolve, and what is true of us today isn’t necessarily true of us tomorrow. What you’re experiencing is definitely not bad, you’re simply experiencing an evolution of self.

Does this mean that you’ll become fully submissive? Possibly, possibly not. You may find that with certain people you are naturally more Dominant, Others more submissive, others still you may freely switch between roles, and you may not.

The only true and constructive advice I can give you is to embrace this new found side to your nature, and enjoy it. There’s definitely nothing wrong with it. 

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