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[Ozo-1152]

Is it wrong that I desire, dream and fantasize about having a Transsexual lover an mate ? That curvy soft an cock excites me. I also so want a frottage buddy or such but I’m afraid. Honestly I want to but really only get aroused by a nice cock an I’m worried that if my first time comes i don’t wanna ruin it 

 

[ey****]

having fantasies is seldom wrong.

But, a lot you have to look at the reality of the situation.   

So, a lot of people who are trans have dysphoria - and so objectifying them for a part of their body they're really uncomfortable with, isn't going to bode well

and even those who potentially are comfortable with it - are probably still going to want to be seen as a person first, and not an exotic fantasy.

[Deleted Member]

Speaking as a post op trans woman,there are parts of a body that a transsexual would rather not have,and would not be interested in a partner that was only interested in them because of those bits,personally i couldn't wait to get rid of the parts in question,although born in a male body, I never considered myself male,and now I have my proper body I am as I should have been,a woman,and want to be seen as such.

[su****]

Well not to be rude guys but that kinda fuckin sucks for those of us that truly want transsexuals to be our mate for life like I love boobs, ass, dick, eyes a good smile, and of course I other things I like that are very important as well like personality, interests, love language, etc.

[su****]

I are about*

[su****]

Ugh stupid auto correct you get what I'm saying

[Ky****]

100% with you on that Lynne

[ey****]

22 minutes ago, supersub97 said:

Well not to be rude guys but that kinda fuckin sucks for those of us that truly want transsexuals to be our mate for life like I love boobs, ass, dick, eyes a good smile, and of course I other things I like that are very important as well like personality, interests, love language, etc.

Imagine how it must feel to be trans, and get dumped when you say you want an op - which has happened to many transfolk. 

[Deleted Member]

I wasn’t aware that this was a thing - how very objectifying & ... thoughtless, demeaning. 🤨

[Deleted Member]

3 hours ago, supersub97 said:

Well not to be rude guys but that kinda fuckin sucks for those of us that truly want transsexuals to be our mate for life like I love boobs, ass, dick, eyes a good smile, and of course I other things I like that are very important as well like personality, interests, love language, etc.

A transgender by definition wishes to change from male to female,or female to male,someone who wishes to remain in between cant truly describe themselves as transsexual,the term ladyboys or chicks with dicks,are terms used by some to describe people who want both a penis and breasts,its not fair to refer to the half and half as transsexual as this gives some people a total wrong idea about us.life is hard enough for us that extra complications are the last thing we need.

I'm sorry if you dont agree with this,but every transsexual person I know, (and I do know quite a few) feel the same way.

[Deleted Member]

I feel like someone who is only interested in a person for the bits is watching too much porn and futa anime, and having unrealistic expectations of a relationship. We're all people, not parts, and want to be love for who we are, not for the parts we have. Erotic fantasy isn't "wrong", but it's not fair when your exectations/requirements for a relationship depend on a real person embodying your fantasy 100% of the time. We all wear clothes, we get sick, we have to do taxes. Lasting relationships are meant to give us a partner through the ugly things in life. If you can only accept your idea of perfection 24/7, you're going to be lonely, especially as you age and stop being so pretty yourself.

[Deleted Member]

3 hours ago, supersub97 said:

Well not to be rude guys but that kinda fuckin sucks for those of us that truly want transsexuals to be our mate for life like I love boobs, ass, dick, eyes a good smile, and of course I other things I like that are very important as well like personality, interests, love language, etc.

Actually, it was pretty damn rude and I'm kinda glad it fuckin sucks to be you.

[Ky****]

Ozo I certainly wouldn't call your desires wrong, which of us doesn't dream of finding our perfect partner.  However, like Lynn I would ask you to maybe more considerate in language choices. Transsexuality is a psychological feeling that we have been born deformed, another way of saying in the wrong body, and desire/dream/fantasise about having medical intervention to correct this.  So please please please adopt Lynne's advice and change the terms you use.

ps shugah I really hope you find your chick with a dick

[su****]

I hope yall know that I want to transition as well but I don't think nor feel the same way yall are explaining people who are Trans think and feel so all I'm saying is every single person in this world is different therefore one should not take offense to another's inquiries about there own wants and desires simply because, for example, one individual may emotionally feel hurt to be around someone who loves them because they are a sex toy to them whereas for another (such as myself) would feel as though there life is now complete and they are as happy as can be... I apologize for any language or offensive terms I had used in my last message admittedly I was high as a kite.

[Olliebob]

On 1/23/2021 at 8:22 AM, supersub97 said:

Well not to be rude guys but that kinda fuckin sucks for those of us that truly want transsexuals to be our mate for life like I love boobs, ass, dick, eyes a good smile, and of course I other things I like that are very important as well like personality, interests, love language, etc.

Exactly.. tho I can see the point Surly all can’t feel that way and desire I soulmate for life Ride or die??

[Olliebob]

On 1/24/2021 at 2:27 AM, Kymi said:

Ozo I certainly wouldn't call your desires wrong, which of us doesn't dream of finding our perfect partner.  However, like Lynn I would ask you to maybe more considerate in language choices. Transsexuality is a psychological feeling that we have been born deformed, another way of saying in the wrong body, and desire/dream/fantasise about having medical intervention to correct this.  So please please please adopt Lynne's advice and change the terms you use.

ps shugah I really hope you find your chick with a dick

My apologies I can be deedadee an not even realize it.. truly no intentions to offend or sling hate..

[Paulc24]

Is it normal flr me being a straight guy to fantasise about being gangbanged by a bunch of men and cummed in honesty all i think about