How to encourage oral sex????

[Ms****]

Thank you for the suggestions
I don’t think I will just sit on his face lol but my bday is coming up.... fingers crossed, eh? lol

[Deleted Member]

I spent £ 250 having a red leather rimming chair made especially for oral pleasure and worship. Heaven to me is to lay on the floor with the back of my head supported by a pillow, the chair positioned over my face and my wrists cuffed and d clipped to the chair legs ( the legs have small chrome rings to attach my cuffs to) Then my ankles attached to a leg spreader and stretched to the maximum extension. Now I’m captured and ready to worship for hours and hours my only request is that I’m given water/ fluids every now and then. If Mistress is in the rimming position and wants to *** my nipples/ chest as I am totally focused on her enjoyment and making her feel like the most important special and loved Goddess in the universe. Another addition to her pleasure might be a mains wand that can intense the sensations and give her an orgasm that hopefully in my mind will join us in a spiritual union.

[VoyagerX]

2 hours ago, Firewitch said:

Sit on his face!!

 

🔥🔥🔥

😂🤣😂🤣😂👍

[Erotes-72]

28 minutes ago, TAROTT said:

I spent £ 250 having a red leather rimming chair made especially for oral pleasure and worship. Heaven to me is to lay on the floor with the back of my head supported by a pillow, the chair positioned over my face and my wrists cuffed and d clipped to the chair legs ( the legs have small chrome rings to attach my cuffs to) Then my ankles attached to a leg spreader and stretched to the maximum extension. Now I’m captured and ready to worship for hours and hours my only request is that I’m given water/ fluids every now and then. If Mistress is in the rimming position and wants to *** my nipples/ chest as I am totally focused on her enjoyment and making her feel like the most important special and loved Goddess in the universe. Another addition to her pleasure might be a mains wand that can intense the sensations and give her an orgasm that hopefully in my mind will join us in a spiritual union.

TAROTT you ***t such a glorious image, one I would adore to endure. You are indeed a lucky man to find such heavenly delights. To serve a mistress in that way is a gift indeed 

[Deleted Member]

When you guys are ‘close’ try touching yourself and perhaps brushing just beneath his nose and across his lips to see if this stimulates his taste buds. If he’s accepting, put your fingers in his mouth and Command him
To suck them! .... he will hopefully take the hint! Good luck! 😈😘

[Deleted Member]

Thank you Steve I just hope that more women with the same needs reads this and wishes to experience it with me.Cannot believe there are females going with out oral pleasure on here 

[Deleted Member]

8 minutes ago, TAROTT said:

Thank you Steve I just hope that more women with the same needs reads this and wishes to experience it with me.Cannot believe there are females going with out oral pleasure on here 

Me either,  you're providing an honourable service!! 🔥😁🔥

[Ms****]

I Think I will purchase some flavoured lubes and massage oils. He’s good at massages when I have training ***s/ DOMs.
He’s asked to try some of my toys on me at some point so could introduce him to my wands and my sex machine.

He may want to lick me once he sees that?? Lol

All the oral talk makes me now hope he catches onto to the life of doing oral tbh.

Sex drive off the roof.......

[Ms****]

I think I will bu y some*

[Ms****]

I will also try having my fave Porn channels on when we have our alone time. He already knows I gave up single men for mff 3somes a few years ago... he knows I like my play full on....

[Deleted Member]

I don’t know if it’s been mentioned but in the spirit of communication and honesty, why not just ask for it? Ask him if it’s something he is interested in or not and if so then ask him to do it ..

[Deleted Member]

Ref Fire .... Thank you for your kind words.I’ve been on here for several years now and I’ve read hundreds of posts and in some cases I’ve learnt new things but I was of the opinion that oral sex was the first step on my sexual journey. At the age of 14 my girlfriend and I would practice mutual pleasure in the back of her dads cortina ( obviously not while he was driving lol ) It would certainly be interesting to hear the males opinions who don’t enjoy this 

[Ms****]

Little red. You are actually right.... him and I do communicate very well just we do not see each other physically everyday etc etc so I rather leave/ have patience to wait to have an in depth convo in person.
I see him on the weekends these days so deffo gonna speak about it on a serious note. It’s fuxking been on my mind all week lmao lol

I hold back a bit as I am not pushy.

I am used to guys just offering it to me but I appreciate his background is different to mine. So I do not push? You know?

Roll on weekend. xx

[Maid-Francesca]

Personally I don’t know why many people struggle with oral sex, if I were to receive it, I’d be obliged to give it back, and I really do love a good 69. It’s only fair if you like to receive, you have to give and vice versa

[Ms****]

Lol believe it or not.... unfortunately.... Oral isn’t the norm for some folks....

[bh****]

I love oral, I’ll lick that kitty til you purr!

[Charms]

On 28/01/2021 at 4:02 AM, Boldbald said:

Always happy to oblige...n i don't even have to be bribed with cake!😜

but cake helps

[Charms]

I will gladly go down on a guy but not have any 1 go down on me. I have ocd about germs an things. I find dick easyer to please. but then my therapist years ago why I have trouble with being clean down there. I want say what was discussed as it could trigger  some people an I'd rather not

[Charms]

I will gladly go down on a guy but not have any 1 go down on me. I have ocd about germs an things. I find dick easyer to please. but then my therapist years ago why I have trouble with being clean down there. I want say what was discussed as it could trigger  some people an I'd rather not

[RkyMtnMister]

COMMUNICATION COMMUNICATION COMMUNICATION!!! I always look to set the stage with my SO, and if it's something she's weary about we can ease into it, but she'll certainly know I'd be happy if she did. However, in a D/s relationship... it's a topic of discussion as to if its going to be a benny or punishment.

[Deleted Member]

TL;DR - I love it but check smell and hygiene!!! Only 1/2 of my last few partners smelt good. Tip that one of them shared = sensitive fem wash, no perfume!!!! Oh and men! Same applies you mother fuckers!

Ok so I love giving oral sex, it’s a big part of my prelude to edging and overstimulation... and primal in general.... BUT!!! And I don’t mean that this is why other men hold off... if I get an unhygienic smell I’m not going near it. Out of my last 8 play partners only 3 have not had a stale smell down there. Even after showering!I’m a primal ***hound so maybe I’m unfair but I stand by it for me...

one tip my ex used sensitive feminine wash, no fragrances or perfumes, otherwise washing can throw the balance off... so even after a shower things aren’t right. Oh and yes I know that men need to do the same!!! Less delicate balance for us but get in there boys, unless they’re a brave cheese connoisseur you’re going to *** your partner off.

[Clcoupe]

February 4, Erik295 said:

TL;DR - I love it but check smell and hygiene!!! Only 1/2 of my last few partners smelt good. Tip that one of them shared = sensitive fem wash, no perfume!!!! Oh and men! Same applies you mother fuckers!

Ok so I love giving oral sex, it’s a big part of my prelude to edging and overstimulation... and primal in general.... BUT!!! And I don’t mean that this is why other men hold off... if I get an unhygienic smell I’m not going near it. Out of my last 8 play partners only 3 have not had a stale smell down there. Even after showering!I’m a primal ***hound so maybe I’m unfair but I stand by it for me...

one tip my ex used sensitive feminine wash, no fragrances or perfumes, otherwise washing can throw the balance off... so even after a shower things aren’t right. Oh and yes I know that men need to do the same!!! Less delicate balance for us but get in there boys, unless they’re a brave cheese connoisseur you’re going to *** your partner off.

A case of Richard Quazo. Always worries me if I smell ok down there.
A big turn off if the lady has a less than fresh scent. 

[skykink]

If a girl said she wasn't doing it gor me or I got no pie at all id be going it even if it was not fun because *** with pleasure is better than no pleasure at all. I like eating out tho id eat out anywhere 😋 I don't have any prob with it I love it especially when they get off can't wait to get gushed on and drenched face now I. Getting hard better stop tlkimg about it and watch some vids and take care of it..... it likes to have fun 👍 it's why ill mess with a dirty beaver dam for the bever who gnaws on wood and makes her walls strong 💪 the only thing that can make it a good relationship besides communication and soul mate friendship 😛😘😋👅🍑🌮🦪🍯🤿🎯💧🌊🤑👾💦👸🧜‍♀️🐚🐈🦄👅😛😋 all day playing if I could get to*

[Sissy4550]

On 1/28/2021 at 5:03 AM, Allure said:

When you guys are ‘close’ try touching yourself and perhaps brushing just beneath his nose and across his lips to see if this stimulates his taste buds. If he’s accepting, put your fingers in his mouth and Command him
To suck them! .... he will hopefully take the hint! Good luck! 😈😘

I was a young active lad and very new to everything when I was asked clean up the deposit I’d left. I obliged as I was then and still am extremely submissive and love kissing , licking and worshiping the beaver. As I went on I’d always like giving my mouth and tongue to a lovely lady. Even had a friend that I became her fucktoy after she acquired a liking to my oral services.  

[CherryP]

I adore having oral performed on me and i would lie there all day being licked but I have found that when it comes down to the men I have been with in the past, (in the vanilla world) they have been very poor when it comes to foreplay.  They think it’s acceptable to rub your clit a couple of times then poke you with their fingers then straight into penetration.  Then when I don’t fake orgasm they are surprised that I didn’t cum.  I explained why but they never stick around long enough to learn what makes me moan and quiver.  By they way these are all guys who have previously boasted how good they were in bed and how they loved to give oral. 
 

As for what you can do to encourage him to go down on you, have a chat and ask him if he will give it ago. Maybe ask him to lick and suck his fingers when they have your juices on them or let him lick and suck your fingers after you have played in front of him.  Maybe try the 69 position together?