Guess authenticity is a pipe dream ???

[Deleted Member]

7 hours ago, Thebian said:

 

That was out of every 10 people claiming the role Dominant 1 was an authentic Dominant with real life experience.

 

 

That's quite low ratio mate, but from what ive seen recently especially, not really that surprising. That old bugger "entitlement" keeps raising it's ugly head.

[Carnelian2]

There are real people out there. Again DM is like the lottery, some are good at selling themselves but have very little to offer, while others are the opposite. Forums are good, as they give another side to a person, and messaging can be good over a period of time, as fakes usually show their colour after a few of them.

[Deleted Member]

10 hours ago, Carnelian2 said:

There are real people out there. Again DM is like the lottery, some are good at selling themselves but have very little to offer, while others are the opposite. Forums are good, as they give another side to a person, and messaging can be good over a period of time, as fakes usually show their colour after a few of them.

I’ve experienced so many different approaches from fakes in my short time here. Many of them are very obvious, but the less obvious are potentially more problematic. I’ve most recently become allergic to the charm offensive. The next person who states he was stopped in his tracks by my fascinating profile had better have earplugs in.

[Carnelian2]

2 hours ago, Lockfairy said:

I’ve experienced so many different approaches from fakes in my short time here. Many of them are very obvious, but the less obvious are potentially more problematic. I’ve most recently become allergic to the charm offensive. The next person who states he was stopped in his tracks by my fascinating profile had better have earplugs in.

bummer! - that was my next move!! 

[Do****]

Yesterday at 01:25 AM, Mirixo said:

If people are attacking, you’re in the wrong groups. Have you been attacked here?

I have been yes but I just go on

[Si****]

I am sad to hear that there appears to be as many fakes as you say there are. I don't doubt it of course. It seems to have become a rather gamie Society. I cannot speak for other people only for myself there was a period of time some nearly 38 years ago that I was a player. A lot has happened in my ongoing recovery since that time and I can truthfully say that today I am a kind caring understanding empathetic compassionate human being. And yes I am male, however, I don't see myself as a male first and foremost. I do see myself as a DD that is seeking their life partner. I understand that this takes time patience honesty and cooperation on both sides. Much vetting we'll need to occur before any bond can have the possibility of succeeding. I AM a VERY Patient DD. Sometimes, ( or at least on occasion), with time, kKnowledge is acquired and, through proper action, may be transmuted into Wisdom, Through ACTION/Deeds❗♏♐🐺🐾💺☕

[Deleted Member]

Fakes here, fakes there, fakes everywhere... But the Internet has more than anywhere. Why? Normally one of two reasons - someone after *** or someone after something sexual. Sadly this ruins it for those amongst us who are serious.