Hi I have a new kink and I need help

[Thegoodboy32]

Hi I recently discovered my mommy Kink amd I have my others but this one made me think and my mom used to hurt me and *** me and maybe it's because of this but I think I'm being rough on my self but I hope ill find some one 

[FtMBRAT22]

Little space is a coping mechanism to deal with trauma. Being aboandonded by my mom and ***d by my Dad well maybe that's one of the many reasons I dont have a preference.

[rossco-4359]

Many people feel guilt over there kinks & desires, but no one should feel ashamed for how they deal with childhood trauma & as long as what you do is consensual & doesn’t hurt anyone then there’s nothing wrong with doing what you enjoy or feel you need.

[Deleted Member]

Rossco - so very well said! Thank you for sharing!

[Porkchamber]

Same here. I have a huge fetish with being bound and isolated for long periods of time. The feeling when she comes back for me is overwhelming.

 But similar to you, I feel guilty about the source of it. Like, am I fetishizing a parent, or reacting to circumstances that incite a response to being freed? I’d assume the latter, and so I still wouldn’t consider it a mommy thing, but I have been eyeballing a romper for littles that could be made into a locking piece. 

Edited March 26, 2021 by Porkchamber
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[Fireball7495]

I discovered my Mommy fetish while doing EMDR therapy.  I asked my SO to cuddle and stroke my scalp... and it just evolved from there.

 

So yes, kink can be an effective way to deal with traumas.