Anal *** better than penetration itself?

[Deleted Member]

I'm having anal sex (active) with my sub. She never really tried before and hasn't got to relax fully and isn't allowing me to fully penetrate her. I'm 4,5-5 cm thick and will it's fine, anal sex can take time to get used to. She is really into it, even if experimenting a lot of ***.

I'm starting to think so, since she is quite masochistically inclined, that she might enjoy it especially for the ***. So she likes to feel the *** if my dick forcing himself inside of her and her hole slowly giving up. Be advised that I'm quite careful and take pride in listening to my sub, making sure i don't cross that thin line between fun and excess.

Does anybody enjoy *** more than penetration?

[Ms****]

Is the *** not a tear in her muscles every time you penetrate her? That’s not safe.... ask her to anal train in her own time. You are her Domme and safety first?
And For both of your sakes really. The *** is not a good sign at all...
Remember the bum is more susceptible to damage and infections.

- my comment isn’t a criticism or to be taken rudely as I’m not being rude. But reading your post alarmed me.

All the best. MBB

[Si****]

Yeah, what I've found with anal sex its that its very easy to push at the wrong angle and hit a not-at-all-nice kind of ***. That is the point to gently pull out and try again gently at a different angle perhaps. And it is that initially entry that you need to get right and then it seems to get easier. Also having your sub have different sounds for good and bad *** is a great help.
Best of fuck 😊

[so****]

You're using lube, right? Please tell me you're using lube😅 muy importante👍

[Aconite]

I like the *** when I have anal but I also make sure I’m stretched. It’s nice when I have help with that as it’s used as fore play but I also don’t wanna tear anything.

[Deleted Member]

First of all, i appreciate that you are concerned with her safety. Of course i like her, care for her and would never hurt her. In fact we never go beyond a mild lever of ***. I have quite done experience with anal and know that one wrong move can end an evening if play. She is very safe, i sure you.

Still there is a level of ***, i believe she enjoys that *** quite a lot, any others who do?

[lowcollar]

I love  a certain amount of *** when my mistress pegs me. I keep getting larger strap ons so I can feel it more. I have never torn at all. She has tried to fist me, but I haven't accomodated that much yet. I fantasize about it daily.

[Deleted Member]

To repeat the comments and advice of a porn star some years back - NEVER use anaesthetic lube, *** is the body's way of telling you something is not right - "If it HURTS you're doing it WRONG"!

[boynextdoor]

  On 5/16/2021 at 5:52 AM, Isaac_Hunt said:

To repeat the comments and advice of a porn star some years back - NEVER use anaesthetic lube, *** is the body's way of telling you something is not right - "If it HURTS you're doing it WRONG"!

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On the one side, you're right. But what to do, if you got really big stuff and it takes weeks or even months to take result? 

[lowcollar]

I enjoy both extensively. The *** of entry is exquisite. I also like my asshole being spanked, coated with tiger balm and an ice cube pressed against it until I give in. But, I also love that big strap on penetrating me deep and screaming for more.

[Deleted Member]

I enjoy the *** of penetration. Maybe I'm more accustomed but it doesn't last. Once you get in and get pumping the *** fades melting and giving way to the pleasure. At least thats my experience. I'd say to get insertion over with quick if you can but not too quick or too hard. Perhaps prolonging it only makes it worse. Grit teeth and push through semi quick easy and steady. I think the real *** comes after anal in the bathroom if you know what I mean. Now that can sting. Lol