Deleted Member Posted April 23, 2018 Author Posted April 23, 2018 My opinion for what it is worth is that a man / woman who has sex for *** is a prostitute as is a man or woman who offers to do things for u ie be submissive for *** or gifts and a man or woman who takes your *** calling it bdsm is a thief who simply calls it something else .if i have to pay for sexual gratification then am i not using a prostitute .....or a free loader pretending to be into fetish/bdsm for monitary gain .? Yes i would i say i was .
ey**** Posted April 23, 2018 Posted April 23, 2018 I think first off, what is even wrong with being a Prostitute (although the term 'Sex Worker' is much better) - it's one of the oldest jobs, thousands of years of history and has brought a lot of pleasure to men over time. Under sex worker, there's lots of different people offer lots of different things. Yeah, it can be some form of sexual gratification - but here's the thing... if you have specific fetishes, specific interests, specific things you want to try, do, experience then finding a compatible partner can be hard - and even if you find a compatible partner, then there's some things you might not know how to do. An article I wrote recently (can't hotlink it, but hey ho) it points out that - well, nearly every BDSM event has a SW-er involved in some way. Pretty much every dungeon is owned, supported or subsidised by at least one. All the porn you wank over was made by them. Many run workshops. Or write books. Or video tutorials. You don't HAVE to pay anybody. But... to slur against them or be disrespectful - a lot of people who work as Pro are the ones that ultimate help create nice things for people to go to. Because nearly every thing within BDSM was because someone had an interest in offering it for women. And saying someone "Pretends" to be into fetish for *** - largely bullshit, these people don't last 5 minutes. There's more guys who haven't got a fucking clue about BDSM expecting it to be easy sex or easy women - "find a nice sub slut who'll do anything" - those are the ones who feign interest in BDSM in a hope for sex.
Deleted Member Posted April 28, 2018 Author Posted April 28, 2018 Paid sessions are not the issue as there are people who like that and seek that type of fun, so i cant accept the term prostitute as thats crude. I just wish this site did not have as many females demanding cash in advance from men especially when they wont prove they are even female, it leads to scamming or worse. Its a fetish site and we have to remember many seek various types of kink and it would help if the site would better group and label those who seek paid sessions
Deleted Member Posted April 30, 2018 Author Posted April 30, 2018 Hi all, I would say just be observant, know your limits (as always), recognise that it is an area that exists and avoid it if you're not into it. You make your choices and all that. I do feel a little concerned though for certain (older?) guys who may get caught out by unintended misunderstandings. This site seems to take a good practical and balanced approach to this area.
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