Cuckold?

[BlackChalice47]

So I've had a long time fantasy of watching women I've been in relationships with sleep with another man or with multiple men.  I always thought it was a cuckold fetish but now I'm not sure because it doesn't really involve *** for me.  Not interested in being told how much bigger or how much better they are than me.  The visual itself of them having crazy monkey sex with another man is extremely arousing and I've had women roleplay it for me  by telling me about experiences they've had with other men.  The best way I can describe it is that I'm aroused by the idea of having an extremely hot and desirable partner that I have to compete with other men in order to satisfy her.

Also, I'm not saying this in a kink-shaming way, or to be aversive towards the idea of being considered a cuckold since I'm perfectly fine with that.  I'm simply curious if that is what most accurately defines this for me.  I'm dominant in every other way.  Love your thoughts and bear with me because this is my first post.  

    

[Je****]

forgive me for not having correct terms. but perhaps jelousy and competition turns you on? some people have a fetish for jelousy, watching their partners, wives go with other men behind their back or enjoying them. not about the *** but being jelous of sharing.
that or maybe you are turned on at the idea of a woman you once dated or had relations with... knowing youve shagged her... so know how it looks and feels so you enjoy that from an outsiders perspective, almost as if watching porn... but having a personal experience behind it.

i hope i dont sound too confusing but regardless if it is what excites you then by all means indulge in that where you can with any partner you may have :)

[Deleted Member]

I think “swinger” is probably pretty close.

[cy****]

Do you have a girlfriend currently?

[ey****]

I think variants on this are pretty common - as is said above it can be a form of swinging, but also a kinda voyeur fantasy also

there is also a factor that no matter how hot or desirable your partner is, and what they do and with who, they still come home  to you which can be a boost in itself in a consensual non mono set up 

[Yo****]

Sounds kind of like being a voyeur which is simply you enjoy watching others have sex

[BlackChalice47]

15 hours ago, JenniferTP said:

forgive me for not having correct terms. but perhaps jelousy and competition turns you on? some people have a fetish for jelousy, watching their partners, wives go with other men behind their back or enjoying them. not about the *** but being jelous of sharing.
that or maybe you are turned on at the idea of a woman you once dated or had relations with... knowing youve shagged her... so know how it looks and feels so you enjoy that from an outsiders perspective, almost as if watching porn... but having a personal experience behind it.

i hope i dont sound too confusing but regardless if it is what excites you then by all means indulge in that where you can with any partner you may have

Jealousy and competition seems accurate to me.  I recall an instance in my early 20s finding myself both jealous and extremely aroused when an ex admitted to having hooked up with an acquaintance of mine before she was with me.     

Edited May 13, 2021 by BlackChalice47

[SP****]

It sounds a bit like stag and vixen scenario which is very similar to cuckolding but without the *** x

[Di****]

This sounds like Hotwife territory. *** is a part of cuckold culture but also just having someone fuck your wife/partner in front of you is cuckolding. You’re into cuckolding my dude, took me a year or so to come to grips with my enjoyment as a cuckold.

[Deleted Member]

Sounds like you’re into “hotwifing”. Not cuckolding

[BlackChalice47]

On 5/14/2021 at 1:11 PM, ManicHispanic said:

This sounds like Hotwife territory. *** is a part of cuckold culture but also just having someone fuck your wife/partner in front of you is cuckolding. You’re into cuckolding my dude, took me a year or so to come to grips with my enjoyment as a cuckold.

Well as I pointed out in my original post, I considered myself one for the longest time only because I didn’t know what else to call it. This isn’t me not being willing to admit to myself that that’s what it is. It may be possible that I have a light cuckold fetish that doesn’t involve intense ***.
 

[Ki****]

Lit 🔥

[xXlittlegingerXx]

My last relationship I was in this was his biggest turn on. I had zero experience in it and really had to think about it before agreeing I would do it. After seeing the expression on his face I was hooked. He was so turned on which then turned me on. We came up with a couple rules that made complete sense but the one rule he came up with was he always got to finish me which I thought was an extremely hot rule to have.

[Li****]

Thanks for this post my partner has the same i havent quite understood till now

[he****]

I have this fantasy with my wife but I want the guy to cum in her pussy and her ask me to clean it up.....then I eat his cum from her pussy the I finish inside her too.....she is too worried about pregnancy and std’s ( you can never be too worried but you know) to actually do it but I would be in 7th heaven 🤷‍♂️

[Deleted Member]

14 hours ago, hersissy said:

I have this fantasy with my wife but I want the guy to cum in her pussy and her ask me to clean it up.....then I eat his cum from her pussy the I finish inside her too.....she is too worried about pregnancy and std’s ( you can never be too worried but you know) to actually do it but I would be in 7th heaven 🤷‍♂️

Well if she doesn’t want to get pregnant, then have the other cum on the outside of her vagina or above it and then you can slurp away!

[Wo****]

49 minutes ago, Lickitclean said:

Well if she doesn’t want to get pregnant, then have the other cum on the outside of her vagina or above it and then you can slurp away!

That still carries a risk of both pregnancy and std's.

[Br****]

If you get pleasure from your partner receiving pleasure from others then the term is compersion. You are happy for her happiness. Which is not only hot but also loving and beautiful.

[jr****]

I have the same fantasy with my wife. I love to see my wife have sex with another man. I enjoy it because she is enjoying it. When she’s turned on then I’m turned on. We want to find a couple that enjoy watching each other have sex.

[mi****]

So you’re a stag/ hotwifer type guy? That’s such a great seemingly hidden gem of a kink.

[Ly****]

Stag and vixen is what you described :)

[qu****]

Definitely a stag here

[hi****]

I want to be that hot, desirable partner for my fiancé but he's not into sharing or watching /:

[co****]

I honestly don’t know the ins and outs of the terminology, but I hold a great desire and love for the same with out the competition factor. We have done once and I long to do again. Seeing another man inside my wife blew the visualization away. Hearing her heavy breathing and moans being caused by someone else is terribly erotic. I find myself watching the video we made over and over almost daily.

[Me****]

I thought I was only one with this fetish. I actually encourage my f**kbuddy to f**k other guys and tell me about it.