tomatoes-191 Posted May 19, 2021 Posted May 19, 2021 Hello. I have never engaged in any BDSM in real life. But I have had submissive fantasies my entire life. I have come to figure out that what I enjoy the most is service submission — particularly with politics involved. I am wondering if this is a thing, if anyone else enjoys it and etc. I have felt really alone and like a total freak my entire life because of my fantasies. Basically, I have ever since I can remember been mostly attracted to powerful politician figure types. I will spare you the names. But I mostly have a desire to serve conservative men, but not solely as there are certainly some powerful women and liberals that I have fantasized about. My fantasies largely involve me being of the opposite political bent who has been defeated in some way at the hands of whomever I am fantasizing about. This makes me realize tHe err of my ways, in which I crawl for forgiveness and must become subordinate to my conqueror. This means a lot of things, and most of them are not sexual: ***d to do tasks of a lower stature, having to do a full 180 on past beliefs in public, fawning about the person I have surrendered to, taking their insults before my staff with a smile on my face, etc. There are some international versions of this as well — I am some sort of diplomat or even a spy who admits the other nation is superior to my own, placing me in a position where I am not loyal to another culture that I could never possibly be a part of, taking orders and the like. And there have been some real world components of this as well. I have a very opinionated friend. No matter the election, I initially am voting for another person before I am “convinced” by my friend to adhere to my friend’s beliefs and vote in the same way. Thankfully, our beliefs are not too different but it is still a submissive thing. I also have always had a thing for a teacher or a professor who I disagreed with politically. There have been a few occassions when I told the teacher/professor personally that they had swayed me to their beliefs. I just feel so weird all of the time. Like... I watch CSPAN like most people watch regular pornography.
FETMOD-KF Posted May 20, 2021 Posted May 20, 2021 just a quick side note. politics can be extremely divisive and complicated so please keep comments relevant to the fantasy/fetish/idea and civil
ey**** Posted May 20, 2021 Posted May 20, 2021 Yes. Kinda. Obviously politics is complex and I'd rather judge someone on their behaviours than their voting - although there are obvious exceptions when it comes to parties I drastically disagree with A friend has (or had?) a sub who voted Tory, so every time he required a punishment, the punishment would be to donate to the Green Party. Another friend had some mutual humiliating play with someone who'd voted the opposite way to her in the Brexit referendum. Which involved a lot of bodywriting and humiliating slogans from the other side. I think one thing to make this work there has to be the right kind of common ground.
Deleted Member Posted May 20, 2021 Posted May 20, 2021 Who's sexier, Maggie thatcher or nicky sturgeon??
tomatoes-191 Posted May 20, 2021 Author Posted May 20, 2021 21 minutes ago, Lovecraft said: Who's sexier, Maggie thatcher or nicky sturgeon?? My favorite UK fantasies involve either Michael Howard or Teresa May. And Francis Urqhart if fiction counts. I am from the US so the political leanings do not bother me at all. But like I said before: This does not mean I want to have sex with either of the above. It is much more about being broken and required to serve in a humiliating fashion. The Brexit thing mentioned above is quite interesting. The writing stuff isn’t my tastes. But I did have a Brexit-based idea where I would be a UK minister in the negotiations who folds completely before Barnier and the EU gets everything it wants from a now isolated UK. (And as stated above, no politics discussion — this is just my kink.) There is also a cultural component thing that I have where I would be an American diplomat or something similar and I end up essentially as the butler or the like to my British/French/etc. superior. 1 hour ago, eyemblacksheep said: Yes. Kinda. Obviously politics is complex and I'd rather judge someone on their behaviours than their voting - although there are obvious exceptions when it comes to parties I drastically disagree with A friend has (or had?) a sub who voted Tory, so every time he required a punishment, the punishment would be to donate to the Green Party. Another friend had some mutual humiliating play with someone who'd voted the opposite way to her in the Brexit referendum. Which involved a lot of bodywriting and humiliating slogans from the other side. I think one thing to make this work there has to be the right kind of common ground. The donating to the other side thing is HOT. I am not into and that has some shades of that, but that is a really great idea and will be added into my fantasies shortly.
Gr**** Posted May 20, 2021 Posted May 20, 2021 (edited) I think that this might come up under the umbrella term "taboo play" because - as the moderator mentioned - political discussions can get heated. However, I've seen topics on forums such as, "Would you accept the collar of a dominant who would control your vote?" Then there was the recent passing of Mistress Velvet* , who required her submissives to read Black feminist theory. While I've never heard of something as specific as what you're proposing, I think that such edgy practices such as "race play" do mean that you're not completely alone in merging (social) politics and kink. There are a few ways that you could negotiate your fantasies: find someone who is willing to role-play as a politician and act out your fantasies get close enough to the sorts of politicians you're interested in - on a local level, say - and see if they'd be open to such a relationship in actuality I wish you good luck! Edited May 20, 2021 by FETMOD-TF *External link removed
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