Masturbation

[Wi****]

Hi 

I was wondering if masturbation can become habitual or addictive over time.

[Deleted Member]

Seriously?

[Deleted Member]

It can, and it can desensitize you and cause erectile dysfunction leading men to use viagra or blue chews. Now a wet pussy is not enough compared to the dry friction one does to one self and just causes problems in fully enjoying an erection and longer sex. It’s a cheap quick dopamine high pretty much.

[Deleted Member]

InfinitewavesXTC that's very insightful

[Deleted Member]

Yes, I believe it can be addictive, and from experience it can also cause issues within relationships. However being a lifetime fan 😊 I have to disagree with the point made about viagra, from my own view, as I've never needed the magic blue pill. Another point is its a perfectly healthy and natural way,  especially for young people, to begin discovering their own sexuality, and is vital I think for single folk to release any pent up sexual energy they may be feeling. Like anything else, it's all good in moderation 😊.

[li****]

It can become very addictive!! Pretty much like anything we do or use even the simplest of things we can become additive to. And yes most studies of men who have an addiction to masterbation can lead to them like said previously lead to them having to use Viagra. We actually did a munch about this well it was about sex toys and masterbation which you can find here willow....https://www.fetish.com/topic/22857-munch-notesagenda-%C2%A0-sex-toys-and-masturbation-%E2%80%93-6th-may-2021/ which when both me and @PixieDust were doing the content and looking up questions and researching we found some interesting points. Hope that helps Hun 💖

Edited July 3, 2021 by lil-monster

[Th****]

There is an interesting correlation between actions that ends with a positive sensation and habitual behaviours I think.

Ultimately, any action that when complete gives you a large positive feedback will be subconsciously be rein***d.

As much as we may not like the first one comparison we are not so far from Pavlov's dogs.

Eventually the act of touching our selves makes our mind jump to the now expected conclusion as we have trained ourselves to link the two.

Thus the link can be stronger than than it is for sex, happily the cure is easy. Go cold turkey 🦃

No masterbation for a week or two and you should find that it self corrects.

Now might be a good time to try that self bondage 🤣

[Re****]

It depends. What better way to control a sub is to instruct them to masturbate.
It can be entertaining for both here are some examples.
Man phones his wife at work and instructs her to put her hand down her panties and masturbate to the point of cumming but then to stop.
Woman calls her husband who is driving to pull over in next layby and start mastubating but again not to cum
Don't we call this edging? It can be so much fun especially if controlled by another person especially at random within limits. If this happened more often there would be no need for self gratificationand more fun could be had