You're On Kink Dating Site, You Must Be A Slut!

[In****]

Well said. What an amazing post. I think everyone should read this when signing up. I almost quit this app twice because I've been hounded by loads of messages and usually they just start of with something vulgar. For one example, all I got was "do you like sucking dick? You look like you're good at it" or asking me to watch them get off. It's been hell just trying to find someone who understands the bond of a kinky relationship.

[ca****]

Haha and this did make me smile......  I read the title in the 'recent discussions' list and thought this may well have some 'interesting' comments...  When navigiat9ing through to the thread I realised this will be a cOPPERkNOB post....    at which point i did smile.

And now I will have to go thru it!!!!!!!!!!   Probably have dome before to be honest.   After all many a slut will have had to respond (no doubt).  (feck I did!)

Edited January 9 by callipygian

[OpenMIndedSasha]

  10 hours ago, Iniquity_xx said:

Well said. What an amazing post. I think everyone should read this when signing up. I almost quit this app twice because I've been hounded by loads of messages and usually they just start of with something vulgar. For one example, all I got was "do you like sucking dick? You look like you're good at it" or asking me to watch them get off. It's been hell just trying to find someone who understands the bond of a kinky relationship.

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it can be very frustrating.  @Iniquity_xx you can go into your message settings and change them so that you only get messages that are a minimum of a certain amount of characters.  You can also narrow the parameters to only vetted, only with profile pictures, etc.   I rarely get messages now, but the ones that I do have read my profile and send thought out messages because I won't tolerate anything less.

[Mz****]

As a dominant woman, there’s a whole hell of a lot of aspects of this post that is so right on.

[Slave4you81]

I think you'd need to be pretty "special" to think that. On sites like this I believe you need a much deeper connection with someone before meeting them than say tinder.. and being submissive too I applaud your final statements,submitting to someone Is a choice *at first at least ;)* get into our heads then our pants :p unfortunately we have all got a lot more sceptical about each other. Every man like every woman like every budgie and dog and fish and plant is unique and individual yet we treat everyone the same. I do it too. There's nothing worse than someone just expecting you to submit just because their dominant. Sorry I'll end my rant there. ✌️