Ce**** Posted January 12, 2022 Posted January 12, 2022 52 minutes ago, Sir-Mark-NL said: 30/40y ago and long before that, you'd only have Masters, Mistresses and slaves, no matter what or how they where identified by themselves or others. Even if this was true (which I doubt as this was already incorrect when I went to my first munch 27 years ago) lot of things have changed in the last 30/40 years and many of them for the better.
Ce**** Posted January 12, 2022 Posted January 12, 2022 2 hours ago, BDSMkinkydom said: How can you tell someone they are wrong about how they describe/see themself & whether they fall in to D/s or not? You are basically saying someone must be dom or sub, there is no other option for a kink & fetish lifestyle. Not everyone into kink & fetish is dom or sub, it is a much more open & expansive lifestyle than such pigeon holed identies as dom & sub only. Exactly. Thank you.
ey**** Posted January 13, 2022 Posted January 13, 2022 12 hours ago, Sir-Mark-NL said: 30/40y ago and long before that, you'd only have Masters, Mistresses and slaves, no matter what or how they where identified by themselves or others. I've heard this before and it comes with it's own problem - that people then get put into a pigeon hole and often expected to behave into a mold where they don' t entirely fit.
Koby Posted January 13, 2022 Posted January 13, 2022 16 hours ago, Sir-Mark-NL said: D&s might not apply to you personally, but still the Sadist is the Dominant character and the masochist the submissive character. Defining oneself as sadomasochistic would be a switch. I do apologise for not including them, in my reply. Wrong !! D/s usually implies some sort of power exchange or authority transfer. You can literally explore S&M as a standalone kink.You even getting Service Tops/Sadists, who perform ....a service to others
ka**** Posted January 13, 2022 Posted January 13, 2022 There are switches, they switch into submission or domination
Deleted Member Posted January 29, 2022 Author Posted January 29, 2022 Hi...If the post banner is supposed to have a link to the bdsm yest, it doesn't work :-(
Deleted Member Posted January 29, 2022 Author Posted January 29, 2022 What I meant there was.... a link to the bdsm TEST lol
ey**** Posted January 29, 2022 Posted January 29, 2022 36 minutes ago, DarklightKeeper said: What I meant there was.... a link to the bdsm TEST lol the link is literally in the very first post in the thread
Chaseman1022 Posted February 5, 2022 Posted February 5, 2022 Test shows that I am a switch and that’s is completely accurate I am a single switch and open to experiment and explore both sides with anyone and everyone.
notfolloinganyone Posted February 6, 2022 Posted February 6, 2022 total crap! NOT INTO *** / dominance / submission why do they always get this wrong?
xTx_or_Sir_John Posted February 6, 2022 Posted February 6, 2022 Knew i was a perfect switch so well done. More of a rigger than it said but my thumb did slip on a couple of questions so perhaps that's it. It's an easier survey for someone to fix than the other famous online test though so have you considered being more psychological in your questioning ?
xTx_or_Sir_John Posted February 7, 2022 Posted February 7, 2022 Good. I enjoyed your test and it was simple but a good psychological one is at least as accurate x
xTx_or_Sir_John Posted February 10, 2022 Posted February 10, 2022 On 1/12/2022 at 8:26 PM, Sir-Mark-NL said: By the way, there are much better "tests" on the webz, than the one this app provides. Have a look at: https://bdsmtest.org That is an excellent test but this site's one gives me pretty much the same results which is encouraging.
Deleted Member Posted February 11, 2022 Author Posted February 11, 2022 I don’t know what I am searching for.
Ki**** Posted February 11, 2022 Posted February 11, 2022 i wish the tests would give us actual percent of instead of just sticking a line in there... i like how the bdsm test one does it on the other site.. makes it easier to show numbers... im 100% submissive and most of the pieces are also fully filled (100%) but the ones that arent im curious what the number would have been lol..
Littlebrats-5329 Posted March 23, 2022 Posted March 23, 2022 Hello I'm new on here. Not sure what to do?
Chaseman1022 Posted March 30, 2022 Posted March 30, 2022 This test is very accurate I am a full blown switch and I am up to explore and experiment with anything and everything
Deleted Member Posted March 30, 2022 Author Posted March 30, 2022 I started taking the test, I'm not even sure what it all means. I have very little experience with sex, no experience with BDSM
Deleted Member Posted March 30, 2022 Author Posted March 30, 2022 there are far better tests out there, sexualalpha being one of them...
Deleted Member Posted March 30, 2022 Author Posted March 30, 2022 You keep pushing this test even though many have said the questions are too ambiguous & results are inaccurate & says people are in to things they are not & results say subs are & doms are actually switches - the test only seems to have some accuracy with switches.
Cimky Posted April 9, 2022 Posted April 9, 2022 I dont think there will ever be a test that covers it all, or sums up in a rather accurate way what you are the questions are just a bunch of broad-spectrum questions that allows only for a slide scale between 2 choices and that counts for about every bdsm test I have seen. And understandable so as if you had to add all subdivisions and different roles the test would take days to complete. In my opinion its just for fun
Deleted Member Posted April 25, 2022 Author Posted April 25, 2022 This test would benefit from a numerical options system rather than vague questions. One to Ten works better than “Do you go events?” Or “Do it with others” Being submissive at an event doesn’t make someone more submissive than someone who doesn’t - their private play could be far more intense than anything the event goer goes to.
Recommended Posts