New here! 🤙🏻

July 8, 2018

Hey folks!

I just thought id introduced myself...

I’m very new to this scene, and would just like some friendly advice, and hopefully to meet new friends.

I have a diaper fetish, but not so much the age play... I just get turned on by the thought of the cool plastic rubbing between my thighs, and like being changed by other women... I also enjoy changing other women 😜

It seems that there’s far fewer people into the same thing, however more people on this site seem to be open to trying new things, including this which seems strange to me as I struggle to accept it’s something I enjoy. Weird I know...

Anyway... just thought I’d say hey, and introduce myself.

how have you lot found people to be more open and accepting of new things from this site? It seems more people are willing to try new stuff, but don’t really know how to get to meeting new people and maybe even a few play dates...

ciao! 🤙🏻

July 9, 2018

Welcome.

I'd say we're still 'normal' people despite being kinky and so you should just treat potential playmates like anyone else you'd be interested in life.

If you're asking about easy hookups i'd say your chances are higher if you pay for that.

July 10, 2018

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I struggle to accept it’s something I enjoy. Weird I know..

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This happens a lot, I think this will take time - but - once you accept it as something you enjoy, it does make things easier on yourself. That can be by finding other people enjoy it, or also finding that other people like other things deemed weird.

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have you lot found people to be more open and accepting of new things from this site? I

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yes, generally - it's mostly positive.

the odd hiccup, I mean, there's no kink hivemind - but compared to other platforms it's certainly a lot more openminded.

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I t seems more people are willing to try new stuff

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I think there's a lot of 'newcomers' finding their way here and a lot of these are people finding their way, or have perhaps previously not felt confident enough to discuss what *really* makes them tick.

Sometimes I do think there can be a little bit caution needed if some do seem a little keen to 'try anything with anyone' because it sometimes looks a lil "desperate for anything"

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don’t really know how to get to meeting new people and maybe even a few play dates...

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Stuff takes time - and online in particular it's really hard to build up trust.

This certainly doesn't mean things are not possible. So, I checked your location - ha, I was in your neck of the woods last summer, doing a radio interview. And filming in the dungeon. So, your location isn't too bad for being able to run online as an extension on real life. Have a look at what is in your area, I think a good starting point is the BBB in Birmingham, especially as there'll be lots of traders and people pimping their events and munches - I believe Worcester had a munch - but, again, don't treat those as hook-ups but it's still a good way to meet people.

July 10, 2018

10 hours ago, 3SumQueen said:

Welcome.

I'd say we're still 'normal' people despite being kinky and so you should just treat potential playmates like anyone else you'd be interested in life.

If you're asking about easy hookups i'd say your chances are higher if you pay for that.

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Hey! Thanks for the reply! I do think of ‘normal’ as being non existent... it’s tough to know what’s wrong and what’s right sometimes in today’s society...

and as regards the quick hookups? Nah... not really interested in that. I want to be able to talk freely with some like minded people and learn more about myself and my kink. It’s half the fun! Finding out what you enjoy! Push that boundary a touch, and see where it takes you.

But at the same time, would be nice to be able to sit down with a few people and work out what’s their favourite brand of adult nappy, or how did they find them self’s to be in the situation were all in..

enlightenment I suppose..

July 10, 2018

2 hours ago, eyemblacksheep said:

This happens a lot, I think this will take time - but - once you accept it as something you enjoy, it does make things easier on yourself. That can be by finding other people enjoy it, or also finding that other people like other things deemed weird.

yes, generally - it's mostly positive.

the odd hiccup, I mean, there's no kink hivemind - but compared to other platforms it's certainly a lot more openminded.

I think there's a lot of 'newcomers' finding their way here and a lot of these are people finding their way, or have perhaps previously not felt confident enough to discuss what *really* makes them tick.

Sometimes I do think there can be a little bit caution needed if some do seem a little keen to 'try anything with anyone' because it sometimes looks a lil "desperate for anything"

Stuff takes time - and online in particular it's really hard to build up trust.

This certainly doesn't mean things are not possible. So, I checked your location - ha, I was in your neck of the woods last summer, doing a radio interview. And filming in the dungeon. So, your location isn't too bad for being able to run online as an extension on real life. Have a look at what is in your area, I think a good starting point is the BBB in Birmingham, especially as there'll be lots of traders and people pimping their events and munches - I believe Worcester had a munch - but, again, don't treat those as hook-ups but it's still a good way to meet people.

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Thanks for your reply! It seems there’s still a big hush over stuff like this... and I’m trying to dig a little deeper to try and get to a few events, and see what the score is.

Yes, I have a diaper fetish, but I also feel there’s a side of me that wants to figure out what else I enjoy. That’s why I’m trying to talk to more like minded individuals to work out where my limits are... 🤙🏻

July 11, 2018

19 hours ago, Glendog1990 said:

Hey! Thanks for the reply! I do think of ‘normal’ as being non existent... it’s tough to know what’s wrong and what’s right sometimes in today’s society...

and as regards the quick hookups? Nah... not really interested in that. I want to be able to talk freely with some like minded people and learn more about myself and my kink. It’s half the fun! Finding out what you enjoy! Push that boundary a touch, and see where it takes you.

But at the same time, would be nice to be able to sit down with a few people and work out what’s their favourite brand of adult nappy, or how did they find them self’s to be in the situation were all in..

enlightenment I suppose..

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You're welcome.

Yeah i put quotes around normal because it's a word that means nothing really, it equates to usual or average in my mind.
I used to do diaper reviews a couple of years ago but since i became chronically disabled i haven't had the will to do any more, my reviews were based on medical need more than fetish as well. If you make a topic specifically for this drop me a link to your topic to my inbox, i'd be happy to add to it based on what i've used.