collars

[slavewife]

hi all need a bit of advice 

i have a collar i wear 24/7 this is my second one but i have found im again allergic to it. not sure as its getting warmer its just due to heat of body but i shouldnt be as solid silver.

my question is do you remove at night time while sleeping ? or do you like me keep on 24 hours a day even when showering and doing everything 

Do you feel bad taking it off even for those few hours ? i cant take mine off was bad enough changing it over 

do you feel that you are letting your dom/me down by asking to take it off for a few hours?

and also how do you as a sub / slave or other dynamic feel when you dont have it on ? 

sorry for questions but as i have never been without one since being with @getbackin i feel im a let down and its part of not just us but me and if i cant wear for even a few days im lost even though we together as a couple and a dynamic and very much strong its and if i take it off im going  to loose that part even though it realy is just a piece of metal its MINE and i ***y earned it  . sounds daft to many but others im sure will see where im coming from.

so if anyone has hints and tips for a 24/7 collar and yes i have a play one as well but i dont take off MINE so have 2 at same time would be a great help and thoughts as well 

thank you all you are great at helping me when i post these nad things but it helps me and calms me as now panicking i wont ever be able to wear 24/7 and ill be a let down 

 

thank you all again

[Su****]

If you feel at the slightest that you are allergic to it, take it of completely. Don't wear it, even for short terms. It might develop a serious health condition.

[gr****]

I would as a Dom find you a new collar immediately. Something like that. Could cause swelling in the throat and is a serious danger. So you should get you a new one. Other than that. It is perfectly okay to wear it at night. But you should never feel bad about protecting your health.

[Th****]

Hi there subs, I can understand your feelings towards your collar and it is not that uncommon.
Collars used to be equated to wedding rings and I think the feeling of taking them off is about the same.
However. I am sure your Dominant will agree that you have an obligation to look after your self as well.
So how about swapping it out for a soft collar at night, like a ribbon.
It will give a chance for it to get air to it whilst still being able stand in for a collar.
I hope this gives you some ideas.

[slavewife]

  16 minutes ago, Thebian said:

So how about swapping it out for a soft collar at night, like a ribbon.

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thank you never thought bout that xx

[slavewife]

hi all thank you its not gonna affect ma health in anyway ive just really sensitive skin i take after my mother who is albino and no i dont have red eyes that her department . jus cant wear jewelry none stop ive had leather that didnt work now solid silver im a *** to be reconned with when comes to jewels ha 

[gr****]

Well allergies can get worse with exposure. But either way. I would say get out of it a few hours a day. I would also recommend looking at gold not silver. They even do white and rose gold. If you are not big on yellow gold.

[Ky****]

perhaps mention it to your Dom thay should be happy to explore other options to show you are owned, afterall a good D cares for their sub's health needs

[Sire_Osiris]

My subs remove their collars when they need to. It's symbolic why they wear them and there is nothing loss between us when real life requires them to remove them.
Like a mechanic in a machine shop has to remove jewelry when working with his hands on some machines. The marriage isn't jeopardized because of the removal of the wedding band. Safe and Sane, people

[slavewife]

thank you all for you alll for your knowledge and imput it has been amazing i thank you all xx 

9m so gonna take this on thank you all ya have been amazing as a;ways