Questions on Onlyfans and Dating

[Deleted Member]

It raises some potential flags. If they’re doing SW because it’s fun to them and they’re an exhibitionist then I’m happy for that to be a thing. If they’re online all day pretending to be horny but then functionally asexual outside of that (there are many SWers like this!) then I’m not interested.

[ay****]

I'll record edit and find partners for scenes. my baby gets the best.

[Mc****]

I had a sub who was onlyfan. She wasnt the star but was the "friend". I had no problems. Wouldn't care if she was the star. Hell, if i still had my 6 pack Id be on Onlyfan. I got the hardware for sure lol. You really need to read the room in reguard to causal Vs. LT. But above all you have to be comfortable with it. She asked me if she could continue, I let her decide. She stopped. Unfortunately she passed away from a car crash, but she was awesome.

[Deleted Member]

I actually had a situation with someone that had/has an Onlyfans page but they weren’t truthful about it. The killing part is that I didn’t care, I was more disturbed about the lie than the actual page.

[tw****]

I dated someone who had a OF. It wasn't a problem for me. She eventually asked me to create content with her which was a amazing experience. Especially when she would collab with other ppl and I was invited to join. The biggest thing is to be open minded and realize it's a job for them. Try not to let jealousy get in the way as well.

[sp****]

I'm trying to talk my wife into helping me with an only fans LoL

[ey****]

On 5/23/2022 at 12:58 AM, spadeDs said:

I'm trying to talk my wife into helping me with an only fans LoL

I think a question here is what are you getting out of this and what is she getting out of this?   

[sp****]

2 hours ago, eyemblacksheep said:

I think a question here is what are you getting out of this and what is she getting out of this?   

*** for what we normally do anyway?

[ey****]

2 hours ago, spadeDs said:

*** for what we normally do anyway?

I get the angle - but...

There are couples who decided to film their sexlife for sites - and more of these are unsuccessful than successful - they often end up having to either bring in a videographer (which comes at expense and is someone watching you have sex while lights beam on you) or investing in a few cameras, lights, etc. and then having sex becomes a big set up and take down - and some find it becomes more of a chore

"let's have sex for content" rather than, y'know, having sex.

 

[ba****]

Yes

[ba****]

I would totally talk to someone with an only fans

[ba****]

Never really worry about what people do to survive and whatnot. Meet folks and decide later when nearing that bridge.

[4R****]

On 5/19/2022 at 1:52 PM, CallmeCupid said:

Questions on Opinion of dating with an onlyfans or dating someone with an OF
1. Would you talk to someone with an OF?
2. if you wouldn’t talk to them is it because they are too public? Or because they seem unattractive because of the OF or even unattainable? Or another reason?
 

1). Yes, of course I would, I'll talk to anyone.
2). N/A

[Deleted Member]

I would date someone who has an OF but I wouldn’t seek out a specific OF creator. That sounds kind of creepy and stalker-ish. But if I were to find out that someone I was going on a date with did have OF in the same way I’d find out if they were working in a hospital or restaurant or whatever, it wouldn’t change my interest level.

[0u****]

I'm currently seeing a partner with an OF. we have been off and on for years. She expressed interest but few good ways of going about it. I being a semi amateur photog let her use gopro, a dslr/video set, lighting and editing software. I'm personally not in any of it by choice as so far. I may do it.
It all depends on what the person is on OF for. Some are trying to catch a sugar daddy/momma, some to try and strike it rich, others a side hustle. She's a side hustle but also an exhibitionist. Would I ever date long term with her? Yes. Is it in the works, not at the moment. She's had girl friends join her on it a few times and for them it was the thrill. Varies from individual to individual.

[HandsForZale]

I don't mind OF. I have one myself. my partners never had an issue with it cuz it's "just hands" and sexual implications.

[Da****]

I wouldn't care if a partner has an OF, but I usually won't initiate contact, and if they do, I will be hyper sensitive to red flags. I've seen numerous posts on FetLife* that I had no doubt the posters were just using their posts to get people to check out their profile, where their OF link was prominently displayed.

Edited August 7 by FETMOD-TF
*External link removed

[li****]

I have an account to sell personal content and so far have stayed single for my own mental well-being. (Cause the dating scene is trash rn)
Personally, if I do meet someone for a relationship, I would let them know. And I would also explain the account/side hustle.
For me it's like any content creation: You have a online persona and you monetize your skill or what people are interested in.
I'm also not going to subject my partners to be part of my business or do things out of their comfort zone. If they want to join, it's completely up to them.
I'm not going to look down on someone for selling their content, but I'm also not going to *** myself out of my comfort zone if their content doesn't make me feel comfortable (mostly public activities or things that have consequences or legal action). Again, it's no different than streaming a video game or recording a song, at the end of the day the green is still green.

[mi****]

He actually had me make one, I think for me it's different. There's no online different personality. I'm literally a hotwife. I'm a freak and it's me with or without it so it's easy for me to do it.

[li****]

Monday at 02:34 PM, milfwife4u said:

He actually had me make one, I think for me it's different. There's no online different personality. I'm literally a hotwife. I'm a freak and it's me with or without it so it's easy for me to do it.

Each to their own. Personally I don't like people knowing "the real me". Like I act semi "normally" (like I don't ***fully change my voice or anything) but it feels like acting in a way for me.
Like I'm not going to talk about my interests or hobbies, if my interests or hobbies come up, they're more props for my content or background fillers.
I also like my stuff to stay anonymous cause the freaks that are chasing Trans people is insane asf! So everyone I know irl (besides family) thinks I'm Cis (thank the gods!) so I don't want coworkers or anyone around me knowing whats in my pants lmao

[TP****]

I think much of this topic comes down to the type of person you are. I have no problem with someone having an OF, but nor do I have any issue with someone in adult entertainment, or who works in the sex trade, provided it’s their choice to do so. As a libertarian there’s really no greater display or raw capitalism than someone monetizing their personal property, in this instance their body, to make ***. That being said my slave has an OF and it’s almost exclusively hardcore content with other men. I have no problem with this. Nor would I if she wasn’t my slave. My opinion may be slightly biased as I do enjoy sharing her and have always had an affinity for the more promiscuous women. Regardless, an OF account displays an amount of fortitude and independent thought that is not at all common these days. Embrace it.

[jo****]

I don't care if someone has an OF at all as long as I'm not being cheated on I am perfectly fine with whatever they want to do it's there job amd there body