Aleksador Posted June 12, 2022 Posted June 12, 2022 3 hours ago, Aleksador said: You messed gender with certain kink preference. Degradees enjoy being (consensually!!!) degraded. Girls can be degradees. Not all girls are degradees – have *** kink. Not all degradees are girls – degradees can be any gender. Curtain down! Thanks for coming to my TedTalk, called “saying obvious things”! Also, have to mention less obvious thing – if you want to know certain girl enjoy to be degraded, or not, it’s better to ask her personally. If you would like to degrade her – even better if you ask how, in which curcumstances, why, and how hard or soft she likes to be degraded, had she any experience in being degraded before, if had, what she liked and what she disliked, and what are she’s expectations, fantasies and desires in being degraded. And, of course, get her genuine, enthusiastic and informed consent beforehand.
Charms Posted June 13, 2022 Posted June 13, 2022 Actually iv never thought to ask my master if he likes degrading me. I know he will do it for me though
pi**** Posted June 13, 2022 Posted June 13, 2022 Only mildly and it has to be when we are in the throws of it and I’m in sub space
ge**** Posted June 14, 2022 Posted June 14, 2022 7 minutes ago, puddle said: I enjoy it as long as it’s consensual I feel like you should check to see what the degradee likes to be called and doesn’t like to be called for instance most women don’t have a problem with being called a toy or a whore or a c*msl*t or anything like that tbh usually a woman who likes to be degraded and humiliated really doesn’t give a f**k what they are called and the more fucked up it sounds the hotter it turns them on. The only time I really get iffy is with race play but usually I don’t go into that territory unless I am asked. I think you need to qualify that "most women don't have a problem with...." sentence - *most* women I know absolutely would have a problem being called any of the things you've listed - now there may be *some* women into *** who don't mind being called those things - but even then for the overwhelming majority it would only be after a discussion had been had and an understanding of what is/isn't acceptable had been established.
Deleted Member Posted June 14, 2022 Author Posted June 14, 2022 Exactly. In fact all of the names mentioned I have problems with. There would have to be some serious discussing going on before I would agree on any one of those.
sW**** Posted June 14, 2022 Posted June 14, 2022 Agree with above comments: even with full, informed consent, one must check and double check soft and hard limits...and not all *** is Verbal. Someone may enjoy being physically degraded but not verbally or vice versa.
Mi**** Posted June 16, 2022 Posted June 16, 2022 Really depends on the woman. Either way, an open and honest conversation needs to be had so each party fully understands the others wants and needs to maximise pleasure for both.
Deleted Member Posted June 18, 2022 Author Posted June 18, 2022 Depends on the scenario and the guy I’m playing with. If my husbands there, what he’s ok with depends on the guy to. But when it’s an open thing I do enjoy it sometimes
wo**** Posted June 19, 2022 Posted June 19, 2022 I love being degraded majority of the time especially with intimate moments or in front of people can really turn me on
no**** Posted June 22, 2022 Posted June 22, 2022 I love very light ***, like calling me a sl*t, but but calling me a wh*re is a bit much
Ma**** Posted June 22, 2022 Posted June 22, 2022 It has nothing to do with gender. Lots of people like to be degraded. Often it’s a power play release. 🖖🏼
li**** Posted June 24, 2022 Posted June 24, 2022 The more intense it is, the better. My man is my biggest bully and I love it
ma**** Posted June 25, 2022 Posted June 25, 2022 I don't enjoy being degraded at all. *** is a hard limit for me.
li**** Posted June 25, 2022 Posted June 25, 2022 Yes oh my god but only during playtime outside is a Nono for me
st**** Posted June 30, 2022 Posted June 30, 2022 Littlegirl101 you hit the nail on the head, many girls like being degraded but only during a session, I only knew one girl who wanted it 24/7. For me collaring a girl is the signal to her that she is now available for *** and when the collar is removed it stops
gi**** Posted July 1, 2022 Posted July 1, 2022 2 hours ago, steadfast said: Littlegirl101 you hit the nail on the head, many girls like being degraded but only during a session, I only knew one girl who wanted it 24/7. For me collaring a girl is the signal to her that she is now available for *** and when the collar is removed it stops Well for me collaring is a whole different subject, as it is a symbol of being owned and giving total control to the dominant. If a collar is taken off, it’s like the bond is snapped and it is mentally ***ful for the sub/ me
pu**** Posted July 5, 2022 Posted July 5, 2022 I agree with little I don’t think collars should be used that way.
st**** Posted July 5, 2022 Posted July 5, 2022 I deal with a number of girls and my relationship with them is purely disciplinary and no sex involved. When I meet them at my home we sit and have a coffee and chat in a vanilla manner. I then fetch the collar and leash and that is when the whole dynamic changes and we go into D/s mode that remains the dynamic until I give them permission to remove it. None of these girls want a full time D/s relationship but they need the symbolism of the collar to enter into it..
ha**** Posted July 5, 2022 Posted July 5, 2022 Me I think respect is better cause it's Really touching to me to see a female cry Just for being dominated controlling during Sex to me it's a turn off I don't like to watch A gang bang I have respect for women A lot
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