Nbidness Posted June 16, 2022 Posted June 16, 2022 So I have a cuckold fetish. I mean, it's difficult for me to cum without the idea being brought into the bedroom for me. It's the porn I watch, and it's what I think about when I masturbate. Wasn't a problem when I was married, she was into it. As a single (and tragically bashful) man it's causing me problems. If you're deeply into something that remains taboo with society- how do you introduce the idea to a partner who may have never even heard of it?
Lord_Talion Posted June 16, 2022 Posted June 16, 2022 You mightve gotten too used to having a partner near by to share the experience with or maybe you like veing watched
TxFrank Posted June 16, 2022 Posted June 16, 2022 My advice it to only pursue partners that appreciate your fetish. Life is too short to be vanilla and settle for less than what you need.
ge**** Posted June 17, 2022 Posted June 17, 2022 The same way as you introduce a partner to anything else that's new - open and honest communication, where you explain your interest and why you think it might be a positive for the relationship, but without making it all about you and what you want, all the while accepting it may not be for them. . Yeah you may have to pick your moment, and it may be "taboo" so a little awkward to discuss but really the only way to go about it is to be honest and have that conversation. . There are ways to approach it of course, and it's not something to blurt out on a first date or while in the supermarket, but quite often a conversation about fantasies is an easy way to open up the conversation - ask her what hers are, or if there's anything she'd like to try, and you can then say something along the lines of "I'd really love to watch you with another man" and see how she reacts - if it's positively you can open up further from there.
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