Why Is It.!

[Pleasuretoy-5367]

Hi All,

This may be a strange topic that I’m hopefully going to get some discussion on, but I’ll ask it.

I’m a straight man because if I look at another man as myself, it doesn’t turn me on. But, if I was to look at a man pretending to be a woman, looking through the male members photos for suitable toys to play with, it turns me on. When I look at male members photos, when having a pretend to be a woman day, I think to myself ‘hmmmm he looks delicious’, I’d like to have my wicked way with this pleasure toy of a man. I could go into more detail, but, I’d probably get kicked off the site. 🤦🏼‍♀️

Can someone please explain to me, why i feel like this.?

PleasureToy.

[Deleted Member]

I guess you’re just really into the right headspace when you’re having one of those days, and you feel like a different person/attracted to different people, and that’s totally okay and really cool! Human sexuality and attraction is fluid and complex so it’s hard to boil it down to a simple explanation, as long as you’re both comfortable and having fun then it sounds like a good thing to me! xx

[ey****]

sometimes there's a case of not sticking you on a couch and understanding feelings more than we can.  But, it may simply be that you have a fetish for Cross-Dressers.

[Pleasuretoy-5367]

12 hours ago, Baybee said:

I guess you’re just really into the right headspace when you’re having one of those days, and you feel like a different person/attracted to different people, and that’s totally okay and really cool! Human sexuality and attraction is fluid and complex so it’s hard to boil it down to a simple explanation, as long as you’re both comfortable and having fun then it sounds like a good thing to me! xx

Thank you Baybee for your lovely reply.! I’m comfortable thinking like this, but It is so surreal that I can think like I do. I suppose the human brain isn’t to think like this. We are taught that man brain thinks matcho, Mars, muscles, and be the leader and woman brain think loving, tenderness, Venus, high heels, dresses and skirts, makeup and be the leader.! XX

[Mi****]

I really don't think we need to analyse all our feelings. Sometimes we just need to accept that this is who we are and be comfortable with it. 

[Pleasuretoy-5367]

4 hours ago, MissTillysue said:

I really don't think we need to analyse all our feelings. Sometimes we just need to accept that this is who we are and be comfortable with it. 

Hi Miss Tillysue, I do accept with the way I am and feel comfortable thinking the way I do. Every human being has a deeper inner self, fortunately some are comfortable with it and some are not. 

 

[Pleasuretoy-5367]

On 11/27/2018 at 8:14 PM, eyemblacksheep said:

sometimes there's a case of not sticking you on a couch and understanding feelings more than we can.  But, it may simply be that you have a fetish for Cross-Dressers.

Hi, sorry I thought I’d replied to your post. I don’t think my fetishes or desires included cross-dressing. Although, I did try it when I was young 🤷‍♀️💋

[ey****]

not cross-dressing - crossdressers

[BigPolly]

Welcome to the amazing world of Fetish! A side of us where desire takes us to an unknown realm & away from reality! Having a fetish doesn’t mean that’s how you want your real life to be.

I have no desire to be tied to my actual doctors chair & fisted by him (ewwwwe no!!!) but in my fetish world to be tightly restricted in stirrups & a gorgeous buxom female doctor is lubing up latex gloves.......

so don’t label yourself, just enjoy the fantasies, fetishes & play scenarios that bring you pleasure without questioning the whys & wherefores 

 

[Pleasuretoy-5367]

On 12/1/2018 at 8:09 PM, BigPolly said:

Welcome to the amazing world of Fetish! A side of us where desire takes us to an unknown realm & away from reality! Having a fetish doesn’t mean that’s how you want your real life to be.

I have no desire to be tied to my actual doctors chair & fisted by him (ewwwwe no!!!) but in my fetish world to be tightly restricted in stirrups & a gorgeous buxom female doctor is lubing up latex gloves.......

so don’t label yourself, just enjoy the fantasies, fetishes & play scenarios that bring you pleasure without questioning the whys & wherefores 

 

Thank you Polly for the welcome. 

Your fetish to be tied down to your actual male doctors chair and given a fisting is certainly one you wouldn’t want to play out. In a good way made me giggle 😉

I certainly have some fantasies that I’m not sure I’d want to act out or happen in real life. Don’t think so anyway 😂. 

Thank you for your food for thought, human nature are certainly complex and extremely interesting life on earth.

 

[Mi****]

I echo the comments above. Dont try to label yourself, just continue to enjoy.

Your post  did make me ponder an answer though... I have several male acquaintances who identify as straight yet are tgirl admirers. I guess same gender play/sex can be a taboo fantasy for a straight guy; but the feminised persona (rather than getting a stiffy on about Fred the bearded 19st trucker for instance) lets lust and desire overpower the sub conscious's 'That's wrong' conditioning.

[Pleasuretoy-5367]

On 12/4/2018 at 9:39 AM, MiztressD said:

I echo the comments above. Dont try to label yourself, just continue to enjoy.

Your post  did make me ponder an answer though... I have several male acquaintances who identify as straight yet are tgirl admirers. I guess same gender play/sex can be a taboo fantasy for a straight guy; but the feminised persona (rather than getting a stiffy on about Fred the bearded 19st trucker for instance) lets lust and desire overpower the sub conscious's 'That's wrong' conditioning.

Hi MiztressD, 

Thank you for replying to my post.

Sorry but i hope I’m not being rude but I didn’t quite understand what you were saying.? I’m new to the fetish scene, although I have had these secret desires, wants and fetishes for a very long time, but have kept them to myself.

Please could you explain.? ☺️

[Mi****]

7 hours ago, PleasureToy said:

Hi MiztressD, 

Thank you for replying to my post.

Sorry but i hope I’m not being rude but I didn’t quite understand what you were saying.? I’m new to the fetish scene, although I have had these secret desires, wants and fetishes for a very long time, but have kept them to myself.

Please could you explain.? ☺️

My apologies PleasureToy, I read your original post I wrongly. I assumed your comment 'if I were to look at a man pretending to be a woman' referred to your enjoyment of looking at other men pretending to be women (ie looking at images of crossdressers or tgirls). On re-reading I realise you mean you pretend to be a woman and look at men!! That of course makes a nonsense of my reply 😏. Just ignore me, though my comment about not labelling yourself, just enjoying remains extant. 😊

[Pleasuretoy-5367]

16 hours ago, MiztressD said:

My apologies PleasureToy, I read your original post I wrongly. I assumed your comment 'if I were to look at a man pretending to be a woman' referred to your enjoyment of looking at other men pretending to be women (ie looking at images of crossdressers or tgirls). On re-reading I realise you mean you pretend to be a woman and look at men!! That of course makes a nonsense of my reply 😏. Just ignore me, though my comment about not labelling yourself, just enjoying remains extant. 😊

Hi MiztressD,

No need to apologise, I probably worded my post in the wrong way that made you think differently to what I actually meant. 🤦🏼‍♂️

Yes, I meant me pretending to be a woman and looking at and thinking about men. 

When I was younger I did dress up in women’s clothes. I won’t say anymore about that for the moment because I feel another forum post brewing up in my mind. Keep your eyes ***led 😉