Where to start with basic bdsm

[Jily]

I would like to test the waters in a controlled, safe environment.  How do I find good private clubs with orientations for newbies?

[Deleted Member]

Join fet life and look for local events is the first step

[xP****]

Highly recommend joining Fet life they hold Munch where you go to dinner and can meet lots of people from the community in your area/nearby.

[so****]

FetLife.com is the absolute best way to connect with local events & munches. This site is good too, but FetLife is best for local things👍🏻

[Dy****]

I did a quick search on FetLife. There is an upcoming munch at a local coffee shop. The person organizing it is known as SwordandRoseMT. I recommend signing up for FetLife and sending them a message.