Ch**** Posted September 24 Posted September 24 I like if they look at my profile first and are just friendly. I've had a couple who were very bossy and demanding from the first message. I am a sub, but I'm not their sub.
Br**** Posted September 25 Posted September 25 Anything but “are you ready to submit and do whatever I say and give me a $50 tribute for one time payment.
Cr**** Posted September 26 Posted September 26 I would like for someone to be upfront and confident, but still be respectful. I will progressively become more submissive once there is a strong rapport and trust in the relationship. Don't expect it to happen off the bat, I'm not submitting to just anyone.
fe**** Posted October 6 Posted October 6 I'd love for someone just to tell me what to or or not to do when they are on their way to pick me up or just come here to bang me.
su**** Posted October 6 Posted October 6 I definitely don't want the dom expecting *** right now!!! Far to many out there doing just that!!!
Deleted Member Posted October 7 Posted October 7 I would want someone who is upfront about what they want and tell me what they want me to do in a respectful way. I'm more submissive and I guess at times submit at a faster pace when I'm shown respect.
me**** Posted October 7 Posted October 7 Green flag when they took the time to read your profile and start a conversation with a question. Not a generic question, like one that relates to my bio. Idk just my opinion, it seems respectful to do so.
Ka**** Posted October 8 Posted October 8 I'd like to be approached with an instant message telling me that he or she would like to pick me up and take me to either their house or a hotel room to make me serve them only as a slutty submissive CD can and that there will be discipline involved if l don't follow their instructions to the letter...
Deleted Member Posted October 9 Posted October 9 A detailed message that they put effort into and I can tell they read their profile. I find that really sexy though I'm definitely not expecting that from anyone.
HypnotistPhil Posted October 9 Posted October 9 3 hours ago, SirenoftheCaspian said: A detailed message that they put effort into and I can tell they read their profile. I find that really sexy though I'm definitely not expecting that from anyone. You'll get at least some messages like that I'm sure!
St**** Posted October 10 Posted October 10 I prefer non-sexual opening messages. I'm looking for a Dom, not just a hookup. Put in some effort. Get to know me! Don't just tell me you wunna do xyz dirty things to me right off the bat.
do**** Posted October 12 Posted October 12 Something that comes off less aggressive and impatient and more in line with somebody interested in connecting and getting to know me and me them.
fe**** Posted October 13 Posted October 13 I personally would want him to lemme know that I excite him and then just be dominant telling me what and how he wants to be pleased.
ag**** Posted October 13 Posted October 13 I think I'd like them to open firmly enough to put me in my place. Get the dynamic off to the right start
Tr**** Posted October 13 Posted October 13 I want a dom/me that has read my profile and doesn't immediately call me pet names. It's a huge bonus when they intoduce themselves and what they're into but in a respectful way ie "Hi i'm [name], saw you're into [kink] and would be interested in discussing that w/ you".
Mu**** Posted October 16 Posted October 16 For me I would like to be approached with respect. Not questioning “ how submissive? “ I am. Or being made to feel like a Dom is entitled to my submission because he claims he’s a “Dom”. A message with a purpose, detailed description about themselves. How long he’s been in the lifestyle. How many subs he’s trained. Some kind of intellect that he understands his role and responsibilities. What it is he’s looking for. What it is about me that caught his attention. Any guy can call himself a “Dom” but a true Dom will never demand something he hasn’t earned. A with his actions show me why hes worthy of following.
Vr**** Posted October 16 Posted October 16 Ideally like a normal person. Ask me on dates and stuff and the like
ch**** Posted October 16 Posted October 16 i like it when a person looks into me a bit before they talk to me personally, which is why i use little bread crumbs of information about me or places they can find me online so that if someone wanted to see who i was outside of this stuff they could. But thats a lot to ask of someone. Usually im fine with just conversation, maybe a compliment or so. Personally even though its a bdsm app i dont like immediately going into sexual talk because being demi i wouldnt be doing that out of genuineness. I want to get to know them before i actually attempt to seduce them yk? xD to be fair i havent really received any dms on here yet, only given. So i cant speak with experience yet 💖
ha**** Posted October 16 Posted October 16 Like a human being. I just blocked someone who immediately started calling me his and threatening me with punishment. Why would I want that from someone I don't know ? It feels so violating every single time and genuinely makes me want to hide my sub status
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