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Which Green Flags Do You Look For?


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•First and foremost, good etiquette.
•Someone that is more interested in serving than their own wants and needs constantly.
•Good knowledge of the lifestyle.
•Wanting to get to know me as a person first and not just treating me like a kink dispenser.
•Good communication.
•Takes care of themselves.
•Shows self control.
•Doesn’t say they have no limits or boundaries.
•Good dental hygiene.
•Good consistency.
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Willingness to be flexible and open minded
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The Openess and ability to explaine ones self and thought process behind it .
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Safety
Communication/knowledge/Honesty
Compatibility of needs/wants
Bisexual
Anal queen
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Style of communication, understanding boundaries/limits, shared stimulating interests, fluid conversation regardless of time length, willingness to explore, and lastly when flirting is fun.
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23 hours ago, hyperlust said:
respectful open minds, curious hearts and an appreciation for the art of give and take

and communication isn’t a green flag, it’s a fundamental necessity if you want this lifestyle to work for you. Disallow the egos need for instant gratification and invest time, passion, pride, honesty and faith into the dynamic you’re building and the partner you’re playing with - the fruits of your labour will blow your mind…

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When I see the term "Serious Relationship" on a profile page, HUGE RED FLAG 🚩🚩🚩🚩
I still have no idea what that means exactly but it seems it has a negative perspective on the type of person this usually is..
"THE HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP" is what we all seek in life.
The HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP has a definition, that I know since I spent a few years researching how RELATIONSHIPS fail at a high alarming rate, and why this is happening.

Since I'm the leading expert in the field, and preparing to finish my biohcthat needs to be shared with all the people in the world 🌎.
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Someone who matches my energy: whether it’s chaotic or chill. And I *do* fluctuate between the two 😅
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Where to begin, he really does know me better than anyone we’ve know each other for forty years now and that really helps all the rest.
he pays the bills first
he has a good work ethic
he respects the older ladies in our families
he really does well at overlooking the imperfections and building on our assets
he knows all the cool music
he is kind
he is a good host
he is an incredible lover
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Love of my Life treated me like a Queen! He was my best friend and soulmate! He always kept me safe and made me feel so loved!❤️
He had a great sense of humour and was playful and silly with me, however calm and collected other times when I needed to be talked off the ceiling! Lol
  • 5 weeks later...
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Honestly a major green flag is to be able to serve goddesses deepest desires without her treating me as an 🏧 before we even get together.
  • 1 month later...
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I'm poly. So if they're not unicorn hunters, they don't practice hierarchy polyamory, if they don't have veto power, if they talk it out & doesn't leave me out of the conversation either or that they don't practice a "don't show, don't tell" kind of polyamory. Ppl who don't that are green flags. If they take consent seriously, the greenest of flags.
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1. One who takes accountability for everything in their life.
2. Good with, cares for and liked by ****** and *******s
3. Doesn't need to be "taken care of"
4. Problem solver and imaginative, intuitive and logical
5. Doesn't do social media but is present in the moment.

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