Do YOU....munch?

[PurpleSarah]

For years I avoided munches but a friend took me and it was really nice to meet people and get involved in a group chat and was nothing like I had worried about.
I’d like to know if there are more in Notts I could go to, if feeling brave

[MaleswitchTiger]

Leave with me and see what I find

[MaleswitchTiger]

Can guarantee anything

[MaleswitchTiger]

findamunch*

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[MaleswitchTiger]

Try this link And then once you find out how to work it type in your area and it'll bring up an entire list of events or people to visit in your area bdsm lifestyle

[MaleswitchTiger]

Try that Sarah and that might be some help to you honey

[To****]

I need help knowing how to even start a conversation these days. I have major social anxiety and it's hard for me to open up

[ey****]

3 hours ago, ToySoldier337 said:

I need help knowing how to even start a conversation these days. I have major social anxiety and it's hard for me to open up

So at a munch it is often good to start with "Hello".  The other person will then usually also say hello, you could then follow up by saying it's your first munch - is it ok to join them. And then you can have a conversation from there.

If it feels too difficult to say hello to someone at an event, where everyone is there for the same thing.  Then start by speaking to the organisers. They will be more prepared to be dealing with newbies and might be able to help with a conversation and may be able to introduce you to someone to chat with.

[PurpleSarah]

Thankyou maleswtchTiger I will have a look

[PurpleSarah]

ToySoldier337 maybe if u have someone u can go with , that would make it feel easier but if not , find a munch near u and b4 hand contact the organiser and tell them u have anxiety and when u go they will look out for you coming and help u settle in
Believe me , u will not be the first with anxiety there
Also let us know how u get on
Good luck

[StrictMaster44]

Nope I haven't

[Ki****]

I regularly attend munches, or at least I did until about 4 months ago when life got busy. It’s almost like there are two kink communities. The one over on FetLife who know about munches and have usually attended or thought about attending one. Who know about workshops, and ***r learning events and play parties, and have heard of SSC and RACK and understand what it means to be collared. Then there’s the community here that mostly have no idea what I’m talking about. I think this is more a kinky dating app than a reflection of the proper kink community at the moment, but I’ve been trying to post lots on forums and raise understanding and awareness.