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March 19, 2019 in New to BDSM, Kink & Fetish?

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Posted March 19, 2019

Hi I’m new to this forum and looking for some tips in opening up my Dom side. I am a Switch, I can go either Dom or Sub but I really enjoy being dominated by my lover. He wants me to dominate him as well and I’m having a hard time really owning my inner Dom. I’m sure my low self esteem plays some part in it. I just want to confident in my own skin so I can really own this role. Any tips would be much appreciated. Thanx! 😘😘😘

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Posted March 27, 2019

Same question here!

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Posted March 27, 2019

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its difficult to *** into a role you are not comfortable with. Maybe just dont do it.

or you could get the help of a Mentor in your area, or play the role of Domme for a period of time without being a sub at all.

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