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Every Domme likes different things. 

 

Personally, I don't care as long as he knows how to use it. If he can't even make me cum, then he is RIP

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  On 5/29/2024 at 6:26 PM, AdamAppleSeed said:

How can insecurities be accessed through inadequate feelings to produce a heightened sense of sexual arousal?

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Midori taught a class on “blush” play that involves thinking about the psyche as a building that contains both support pillars and decorate pillars. For light “blush” play, you can knock out the decorate pillars and the structure still stands. For more experienced or long-term players who understand their playmate and are willing to invest the time and effort into rebuilding, they can venture into weakening a support pillar.

Decorative pillar: something that gets the person to blush, smile, curl in on themselves, gets them hot, etc.

Support pillar: something triggering, something personally offensive, something that could take a lot of aftercare to make right, etc.

Some people love the attention brought on by getting teased about something about themselves: someone is paying attention both to them and to their reactions, the heat his rising to their face, now the person is commenting on their blushing which makes them blush more and now they're getting aroused so now their partner is commenting on that  too, and eeeeee!

Some people want to go through an ordeal: they want or need to cry, to be broken, to prove to themselves that they can survive it and that their top / domme will still respect (and, depending on the relationship, love) them afterwards and help to make them whole. That journey and test of inner strength may or may not be sexually arousing for the person as well as cathartic. 

There are different ways to approach *** play:

  • disdain / cold as ice
  • laughter / mocking
  • diminutizing / "so cute!"

...are likely but a few of them.

Folks who aren't into “blush” play should probably not venture into these waters as they could affect relationships poorly

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Editing for auto-bleeped word choices.
I'm coming at it from a cuckold perspective and so my mistress was my gf and also submissive to the bulls at the same time "small" is a relative term . I was ***y tiny compared to those
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