Why we are here

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I have found myself thinking more and more about this wonderful world I have found and found more and more that I am not a true Dom but caregiver,  I am seeing so much emotion laid bare , that I find it hard not to care . I to have things buried deep yet I find myself trusting you . You spoke earlier about *** on the site . Yet I find that people don't come here because of *** but in spite of it , this is a community of mostly caring people and as such there is no room for it , we all have our own reasons for what we do, if you want to know then ask x

[ey****]

it's funny that, we're all here for different yet ultimately the same reasons....

what makes us tick

[Deleted Member]

One reason I can give is "Because we can". When/where I grew up BDSM was taboo (probablys till is) and as somebody grappling with wanting to know "if I was the only one?" There was nowhere to go for help or advise or even to communicate with somebody that knew WIITWD.  Kinkland has become much more accessible and no longer a dark place with no answers, although at times it still feels that way. 

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Similar to below everyone is looking for something different i wanted to know if anyone else lived the life i did in the past i found some had similar lives which the same as me left me with the fetish i have now